About foreplay with a certain papa: when he starts touching my private area, he puts his saliva on his hand first and then touches me.
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(Even though I’m careful about hygiene, it makes me smell down there and could introduce bacteria or cause a yeast infection, so I want him to stop.)
I’ve told this papa, “You don’t need to use saliva—I’ll get wet anyway,” but he still does it.
So I’ve even tried to get wet beforehand so he won’t need to, but he still uses saliva anyway (tears).
What could I say to make him stop doing this? And if I’ll get wet while he’s touching me, why is he in such a hurry to use saliva from the very beginning?
By the way, I have two papas who do this, and neither of them is very good at foreplay or sex... As I write this, I’m starting to wonder: do they do this because they aren’t really thinking about their partner?
My other papas, who don’t use saliva, are good at foreplay and sex. I don’t have to desperately will myself to get wet.
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Even skilled men sometimes still leave their mark.
After all, even legendary veteran AV actors do it…
Perhaps the reason you consider men who don’t do that “skilled” is largely psychological.
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You probably find it uncomfortable to watch him lick your finger. Strictly speaking, though, it’s actually the opposite of being unhygienic.
Well... if you don’t like that either, you should tell him clearly. It may just be one of his habits.
You don’t have to put up with anything you dislike, so I think you should let him know.
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Spit is a no-go, but what about cunnilingus? Doesn’t he do that?
I think it’s because if she isn’t already wet, touching her when she’s dry will quickly become painful.
Also, she may have been using spit since she was young, so it could just be a habit she can’t break anymore.
Speaking in terms of cleanliness, it’s already unhygienic to touch a condom with hands that haven’t been sterilized, let alone insert it into the vagina.
Well, the vagina is also extremely “dirty” once it starts producing discharge, and simply dating more than one man makes someone “unclean” anyway, so… there’s that.
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He’s the same kind of older guy who licks his fingers to turn pages.
He probably does it unconsciously because he’s unhygienic and simply doesn’t think about the other person. I think he’s the same way with foreplay and sex—he doesn’t consider his partner at all.
I don’t know whether he thinks he’s good at it, and I know everyone’s body is different, but he’s never used lube. I thought I would get wet if he just did proper foreplay—or at least kissed me properly.
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I once had a teacher who would lick the test papers before handing them out, but they were all old men...
I always bring lotion, so I use it with women who have trouble getting wet. When I’m with a woman for the first time, I casually leave some out while she’s in the shower, too.
In a case like this, maybe the person asking could buy some lotion and say cutely:
“I feel best when I’m touched with lotion, so let’s use this ♡”
Then hand over the lotion they brought.
I’d also like to tell all the papas out there: lotion is part of good manners. There are lots of girls who really appreciate it when you bring some and leave it out for them. Highly recommended.
Just make sure the bottle is always full. Refill it when it gets low—that’s part of good manners, too.
P.S. It is kind of strange that cunnilingus is okay but using saliva on fingers isn’t. I only just realized that.
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