Quite a few of the men who have added me to their favorites live far away. Why are they favoriting me when I don’t accept dates with people from out of town…?
There are so many of them from all over the country. Could they be traveling for work?
By the way, the several men who have sent me offers are local and weren’t among the ones who favorited me.
I don’t have anyone who lives extremely far away.
Male members from the Tokyo area often come to Kansai, and they’ve clearly mentioned that in their profiles so it’s easy to tell. ٩(๑^ᴗ^๑)
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Regular business trips are probably the most common reason.
In my case, though, one reason is that I don’t want my profession to be identified by meeting someone locally.
There is one woman I meet in my hometown, but we absolutely never walk around together in public. (She feels the same way, so we’re a good match in that sense.)
Meeting farther away reduces the risk of being recognized, so I’m willing to travel to see her even if it costs me transportation expenses.
Actually, that’s probably the main reason all of my relationships are limited to once a month.
So it’s not that I overlook profiles that say long-distance dates are a no-go—I’m planning to travel to them myself, which is why I have no problem adding them to my favorites.
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I think they simply haven’t noticed the “no dates far away” requirement.
On the app, I had written in my profile that I wasn’t interested in meeting students, yet I still got a ton of likes from students (lol).
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Some male members simply enjoy browsing the profiles.
In other words, they’re looking at them like a photo book.
So even if someone adds you to their favorites, it often doesn’t lead to an offer.
They’re basically just creating a personal photo collection.
Ideally, I think it would be better if profiles disappeared after a month without an offer, but when you consider that this may still indirectly increase Universe’s revenue, it’s probably difficult to do something that would upset the male members.
Oh, and it would also be nice if women had a block feature, allowing them to block people who have added them to their favorites or with whom they’ve had an “A” before.
It might be better to have an option to block someone because you don’t think they’re likely to make an offer, or because something in their male profile seems strange—with the block simply making you invisible to them.
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I travel for work regularly, so I also save profiles of people who live farther away.
Since I meet them when I’m on business trips, I generally go to the branch where they’re registered. That said, once we’ve gotten to know each other, some have come to my area instead.
I’ll send an offer when the timing of one of my trips works out, so I may not make an offer right away.
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I’m Potassium, a female member.
First of all, congratulations on joining〜
Welcome〜!
I’ve received offers from papas whose registered branch was somewhere different from mine (outside their usual activity area). I even met someone from a branch that was super far away when he was in town on business.
There’s definitely potential even with long-distance arrangements, so I think a lot of people send offers and add each other to their favorites without worrying too much about whether long-distance dates will actually work out.
When I first started seeing my papa, I went over to the Kansai area too (I’m originally from Kansai, so it’s practically my backyard), but now, taking my mental and physical well-being into consideration, he’s coming to my registered branch area for all of our dates this month!
So grateful, so grateful.
I think I’ll head over to Kansai next month, though…
Wait, is this a vacation? lol
After writing “head over,” I can’t read it as anything other than “being dispatched” anymore. Ah, occupational hazard〜 lol
Just like Tsubaki said, it’s wonderful, so I recommend telling them that long-distance meetings are difficult for you and still going for the offer.
I’m really assertive, huh? My assertiveness is practically oozing out.
Assertiveness. Assertiveness.
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When you search for members normally, you’ll only see the women registered with your branch.
You can view nearby members right away without adding them to your favorites, while you have to enter search criteria for people farther away. Maybe they leave it there so it’s less of a hassle.
For people who live farther away, I think receiving a “You’re lovely” would give them an extra push to make an offer.
Personally, if I were thinking about making an offer, I’d definitely go for it if one of my favorites sent me a “You’re lovely.”
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Congratulations on joining!
Since you only recently joined, I imagine your profile is probably appearing near the top, making it easier for men to notice you and add you to their favorites.
Only they know why they did it, so why not use the “That’s lovely” feature to thank them for adding you to their favorites, while also mentioning the reason you think they may have done so?
For example:
“Unfortunately, I’m not able to travel far, but… do you have any plans to come this way? If our timing works out, perhaps we could go on a date♡”
I think it would be a good idea to ask something along those lines.
I hope you meet someone wonderful!
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