Do men receive offers only after being added to favorites first?

I offer to women I’ve added to my favorites. That said, I use my favorites list as a reminder, so I often leave women I’ve contacted before in there as well.

> Is “NEW” always displayed? I wasn’t sure myself, so I asked about it and was told: The “NEW” next to “That’s lovely” is always displayed. As for the “NEW” next to “Men who added you to their favorites”: Apparently, “NEW” appears when a man has added the woman to his favorites within the past three days. Also, even if the man’s profile is private, “NEW” will still appear if he added her to his favorites within the past three days. Huh? That’s exactly what Potassium-san said in their answer. > Yesterday, I asked my papa what he thought about the favorites feature. Does that mean you checked with the staff through your papa? Or did you figure it out by trying it together with your papa? That’s pretty impressive.

Many offers come after adding someone to your favorites, but if I find a promising woman who has just registered, I’ll sometimes send an offer right away before favoriting her, so I don’t lose out to other papas. If a papa who has hidden his profile adds you to his favorites, you won’t be able to view his profile. I do this too—some papas keep their profiles hidden but make them visible only when they send an offer.

I’ll add you to my favorites and then send you an offer.

I’m Potassium, a female member. I think it’s probably okay for me to post this, but if there’s a problem, I’ll simply get my account banned—so if I disappear, you’ll know what happened. It should be fine........ Yesterday, I asked my papa how the “Favorites” feature works. I’d been wondering about it since I first registered, too. ※You know how sometimes an automatic door inexplicably fails to recognize only you and won’t open? It was like that.... I started wondering whether I was actually dead or maybe a wandering spirit. ① When someone adds you to their Favorites, a red “new” appears, regardless of whether the man’s profile is public or private. ② If someone removes you from their Favorites and then adds you again later, “new” appears again. ③ “You’re lovely” is sent with a heart icon, and the message can be unsent. Apparently, even if you send it repeatedly, the man only sees the latest “You’re lovely.” (Don’t abuse this~) ④ Apparently, it works the same way for private profiles, but women can’t see those profiles, so we have no way of knowing anything. I’m still tracking how many days the “new” label remains. (It’ll probably be based on guesswork, and since I’m not exactly someone who gets added to Favorites, there’s a good chance my guesses will turn into pure speculation!) So, in summary: There’s absolutely no point in investigating this‼️ I haven’t seen the men’s screen either, so this was basically a shared little amusement—getting my papa to communicate the details in words without violating the rules or causing any issues. Whenever I thought I’d figured something out, I felt a little thrill of happiness. Whether you believe it or not is up to you, so I’ll just leave it as my personal theory. That said, I do kind of wish this sort of information were made public.... Since it’s such a good opportunity..... Maybe I should just ask. 》Maezawa-san I figured I couldn’t ask the staff, so I tried it out with my papa. Sorry if he ended up with a huge backlog of “You’re lovely” messages. We had fun. I confess. I just kept spamming my papa with “You’re lovely,” going, “Let’s see, let’s see! What happens?!” Yes. I regret nothing—well, I’m sorry.

It doesn’t seem like the “new” label appears whenever someone newly registers. Maybe “new” means that a new feature has been added. ⸜(* ॑꒳ˆ* )⋆*☆ To Poshitaumu-san ▶ Nice to meet you (*^^*) From what I’ve seen, “New” appears every day. And it seems to show up not only when the number of favorites increases, but even when it decreases… (*´•ω•`*) …Could it be a bug? Wait, are they removing people from their favorites every day and then adding them back?! Maybe the staff would know? ( ˙꒳​˙ )??? Maezawa-san!! (lol)

I add them to my favorites 100% of the time. Conversely, I remove them from my favorites when I’m no longer motivated to make them an offer.

I don’t use it myself, but I think being added to someone’s favorites is an opportunity, since some people shortlist profiles that way before deciding. Try sending “You seem lovely” with a comment to encourage them to take the next step. It’s a good idea to experiment with different timing and wording. Some people fill out their profiles, while others don’t. If they have one, take advantage of it by reading it carefully and tailoring the comment you include with “You seem lovely.” Women have less information available than men, and things can’t get started unless they receive an offer, so I think it’s important to focus on getting men to make offers. Taro

> Are men only approached after being added to someone’s favorites? I think it depends on the person and the situation. > It seems some people are hidden, but even if someone like that adds me to their favorites, women can’t view the man’s profile, right? They shouldn’t be able to. If you can’t see it, why ask? > Also, there’s a red “NEW” next to Favorites. I checked, but the number of favorites hasn’t changed. Is “NEW” always displayed? You checked it and “NEW” is still showing, right? Then that’s how it works. Why do you doubt what you saw yourself?