If she sometimes messages me casually on LINE and suggests taking a trip together, is it fair to assume she likes me reasonably well? Or is that just normal behavior for someone she’s been seeing for a long time?
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We meet about once a month, and the allowance for an adult relationship (intimate) is only slightly above the median. I’ve always assumed she’d eventually get bored with me since I just go along with whatever she wants to talk about over dinner, but she doesn’t seem to be showing any signs of that.
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I think it’s because he’s such a straightforward, easygoing guy that you can feel comfortable around him!
You wouldn’t chat casually every day or go on trips with a clingy man who seemed like he might become a stalker ✧*｡٩(ˊᗜˋ*)و✧*｡
So keep your current approach and enjoy papa-katsu (compensated dating in Japan)٩(๑^ᴗ^๑)۶
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I don’t understand why you’re so determined to pinpoint the reason. At that moment, that woman simply felt that way. I don’t think it was anything more or less than that.
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I think that’s pretty normal.
With a monthly arrangement, there’s less likely to be a reason for either person to end things, so it tends to be a relationship that’s easy to maintain. At the same time, you could also say that even if it suddenly ended, it wouldn’t be a major issue.
Even so, I’m sure you’re seen as someone they can feel comfortable with.
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If he’s a generous person, he may be inviting you because he seems like the type who would buy you gifts while traveling.
That said, if that were the case, I don’t think he’d be messaging you casually on LINE.
Taken together, it sounds like he genuinely likes you.
Wait… is this a humblebrag?
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If you were doing mama-katsu, would you invite your mama on a trip? Probably not, right?
The pay-per-meeting allowance is 60,000 or 70,000 yen, right? That’s higher than the going rate, but not exceptionally high. So being invited on a trip is proof that she really, really likes you.
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He seems to like you.
You’re being treated well because your allowance is better than what his other girls receive.
Either way, it sounds like you rank higher than his other girls, so that’s good to hear.
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I’d say he probably likes you.
It sounds like you have a good balance of distance, but maybe you’d like him to give you a little more attention.
Could he be handsome, by any chance? Women notice a man’s looks too, after all.
A handsome man in his 40s—he must be in his prime and unbeatable… or maybe standing at a 90-degree angle（笑）
Wow, I’m honestly jealous!（笑）
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