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I’m curious and would like to know: I do papa-katsu (compensated dating in Japan) three days a week, meeting one or two people a day. Is that considered a lot? Also, how often do men usually do this each week?

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I’m not sure whether that’s a lot or a little, but if you’re intimate with two or more men in a single day, it might come across as a little too professional. Even if you’re intimate with six men in total per week, I’d say it seems fairly normal as long as it’s no more than one person per day. I’m sure you’re fine, but be careful—if a man can smell another man on you down there, he may be put off.
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I think there are quite a few. But if you’re mentally and physically okay with it, then I don’t see a problem… Akari
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Three times a week is probably about average… though the number of partners might be a little high… Speaking as a man, I’ve had four arranged dates in a single day before, so theoretically, multiplying that by seven, it would be possible to go on more than 28 dates a week. I’m the type who feels all my fatigue disappear when I meet women, so I could probably do it if I really wanted to. I’d likely feel more energized rather than tired. I also have plenty of stamina and endurance—I’ve finished full marathons in just under three hours—so whether it’s sports or anything else, I can keep a woman company endlessly without drinking a single drop of alcohol and without feeling tired.
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I think that’s quite common. Personally, I find meeting one person every two weeks works well and leaves me plenty of breathing room. I’ve been seeing one person every two weeks since I started dating. It’s always the same woman, but I genuinely look forward to seeing her every time, so the pace feels just right. And when she says things like, “I’m looking forward to it,” I can’t help getting carried away… haha.
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I’d say that’s probably on the high side. At my peak, I was doing papa-katsu five days a week, meeting one or two women a day (lol). Back then, I’d sometimes go straight from saying goodbye to one woman to the meeting place for the next. Those were the days. I remember being absolutely exhausted. This week, it’s one woman a day, four days a week, but normally it’s about one woman a day, twice a week. Adding this after reading Maezawa-san’s answer: > If a man smells another man on you, he may be disappointed, so be careful. There have been times when I could smell condoms, though. I sometimes ask when they last had sex and compare their answer with what I know (lol).
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Having two dates every Saturday and Sunday, plus one on a weekday, doesn’t seem impossible, but it’s still quite a lot. It really depends on you—if you feel it’s a lot, then it is, and if you don’t, then it isn’t. I’d be concerned that you might get tired if you’re working a regular job, but if they’re all kind, comforting papas and you don’t have to put in too much effort, I think it could be sustainable. Marika
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