Tips Sep 6, 2022 15:56

On the day we’re supposed to have an adult relationship for the first time, he told me we’d stay in a hotel suite that seemed decent enough, but then said it got booked up while he was in an area with poor reception, so he reserved a lower-tier room instead.

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What would you do?
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I’d probably end things with a girl who asks a question like that.
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お役に立てれば幸いです。
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If your goal is simply to receive an allowance from him, I don’t think it has to be a suite. But if you were thinking you’d be okay with an adult relationship if he booked a suite, you could send something like: “I’m sorry, but something else came up that day, so I can’t make it after all.” If he’s the kind of man who wouldn’t think, “I guess she made other plans because I didn’t book a suite,” then I think it would be fine even if the relationship ended. That said, you can probably get away with asking for a suite because it’s your first meeting, but expecting one every time would be a bit much. I think it’s better to limit it to the first meeting, Christmas, your birthday, and so on. Wait—are we back in the bubble era? Did I somehow travel back in time?
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Her looks and figure were barely passable, and once we got to the hotel, she said she didn’t have much experience and had a lot of no-go requests. She just lay there completely unresponsive. What would you all do? LOL
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I see, that’s too bad! And that’s it. Akari
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Nothing in particular.
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I get the feeling the person asking is hoping someone will answer, “Ask him to increase the allowance by the difference,” so she can show it to her papa and say, “Everyone’s saying this,” to push the conversation in that direction. But maybe I’m overthinking it.
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If it were me, I’d probably let it slide and simply thank him for making the reservation. But if it really bothers you, you could try playfully pouting and saying, “I was hoping my first time would be in a suite, though.” lol
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