Men usually give out their business cards, right? I always start by handing over my business card at the first meeting. At the same time, I give her a small envelope with a flat ¥10,000 for transportation. Isn’t that the bare minimum—and basic etiquette—for a gentleman?

I’m Saito, a columnist♪ I don’t give out my business card. Sorry, ladies. Being a member of a dating club used to carry a lot of credibility all by itself… If I’m going to date someone only after handing over my business card and revealing my identity, I might as well skip the annual membership fee and introduction fee and simply date women properly through work or by approaching them myself. I know that sounds like something a secret woman might say, but I guess it really is a gathering of all kinds of people. Of course, Questioner, anyone who gives a business card and a small envelope right at the beginning must seem like a truly wonderful person—even to someone of the same sex. I’m well aware that I’m not one of the more impressive male members. ↑ Even so, I’ll do my best to give the few female members who trust me and date me without even asking about my occupation a wonderful time. The reason I’ve been talking about the old days so much lately is probably that, without realizing it, I haven’t kept up with the changing attitudes and perceptions surrounding dating clubs today… lol

Maezawa here with an answer. Thank you for following Universe’s rules. I’m sure this helps women feel at ease on their dates as well.