I do think being attractive can lead to a higher allowance.
But when it comes to whether the relationship can continue, or whether you’ll be treated well, compatibility is more important.
Whether the other person takes a liking to you also depends more on who you are on the inside.
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I agree with Lose-man on this answer.
I’m not exceptionally beautiful, but I never had any trouble dating men before joining a dating club. Thankfully, I received a decent number of offers through Universe as well, and went on dates with various men.
At first, I thought men who offered a high pay-per-meeting allowance simply had better terms, but that isn’t necessarily true. Even if the allowance was generous, if I couldn’t come to like the other person, they could sense it too, and the relationship never lasted very long.
So even if someone is prettier than me, has a better figure, and receives a higher allowance per meeting, I don’t think she’ll receive that much unless the relationship continues. If he really likes you, it won’t just be at the level of 10 or 20 per meeting.
To achieve that, you need to work on developing your inner qualities, not just your appearance.
Up to this point, it may be possible to manage through your own efforts. But in my case, I may also have been lucky with the people I met. I can never thank the papas who found an ordinary woman like me enough.
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The allowance you can get upfront is determined by your looks.
Whether the arrangement continues, however, depends on factors other than appearance.
The month before last, I met a Premium Black girl and had an adult relationship (intimate) with her. It was pay-per-meeting, 14.
She was stunningly beautiful and so popular that she wouldn’t even entertain a single-digit offer.
But we only met once. Her face was perfect and she had a toned body, but she was bad at H and it was boring. Her conversation skills were mediocre at best.
As だて◎ゆめさん always says, you can’t make money in papa-katsu (compensated dating in Japan) unless the arrangement continues.
Even 5 per meeting can add up to something incredible if it continues for two years.
The Premium Black girl I met was breathtakingly beautiful, but the total I managed to get from her was only 14.
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Looks are what initially draw me in too, but whether the relationship continues—and whether I give her preferential treatment, including a higher allowance—depends on whether her lovable personality and the way she naturally wins affection match my personal tastes.
I’ve dated girls who are generally considered pretty, cute, or beautiful, but they weren’t necessarily absolute stunners (sorry for putting it so bluntly). As the relationship continues, other qualities become increasingly important.
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I don’t think that’s necessarily true. That said, men who place a lot of importance on looks in a partner might do that.
I think the one thing women who are popular with everyone have in common is that they’re warm and easy to get along with.
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