I always enjoy reading everyone’s answers.

> Do you think a woman like this can meet a wonderful, high-quality man? I can’t really say without seeing what you look like, but if you’re the kind of woman who’s popular with men—or attractive enough to place first in a beauty pageant—then, since you’re registered with Universe, I think there’s a chance you may eventually meet someone like that. Even if you’re not quite at that level, men all have different tastes. You might happen to receive an offer from someone who likes your type. I’d guess that around 20% of the male members are probably the kind of men you’re looking for, so I think the odds are reasonably good. However, those men also place importance on appearance when deciding whom to make an offer to (at least when it comes to the initial offer), so I think you’ll need to have the kind of looks that get selected.

Aren’t you trying to take the easy route to find a wonderful papa (a male supporter)? The papa I’m seeing now definitely didn’t offer a high allowance from the start. But he was very considerate, and I kept seeing him because I felt happy and enjoyed spending time with him. There’s nothing wrong with aiming for a high allowance from the beginning, but unless you have flawless, actress-like beauty, it may be better to win your papa’s favor and wait for the allowance to increase. That takes a lot of effort. I hope you can learn from your mistakes and eventually find someone who’s a good match.

Some of you may know me, and judging from the tone of my answers, many of you have probably already guessed this, but when it comes to starting a relationship, I place enormous importance on appearance—especially the face. I imagine Makeo-san is probably somewhat similar. So it’s not that he’s generous with every woman; I think it’s limited to a very select few. Another difference between Makeo-san and me is that I don’t start out by offering an especially high allowance. It gradually changes as the relationship develops. In my case, I’m the one who gets pulled into the relationship, as they say here（笑） ・Man in his 30s (married) ・I don’t know whether I’m “used to dating and good at handling women,” but I’m often told that I’m basically gentlemanly and easy to be around ・Starts at an allowance of 70,000 yen or more on a pay-per-meeting basis ・Often complimented on being well-groomed ・Around 170 cm tall ・Not slim at all, but muscular ・I play golf regularly. I’m taking a short break from the gym due to various circumstances, but I plan to start going again soon Other than not being slim, I think I’m fairly close to the questioner’s ideal（笑） As for the women I’ve had long-term relationships with in the past, including my current partners: ・Ages 22–27 ・Height 150–159 cm ・Measurements: 105–115 ・Bust: B–F ・No cosmetic surgery ・No experience in the adult entertainment industry (one of the girls I currently only have dinner with works at a lounge) ・Some have been scouted, while others haven’t That’s roughly what they’re like. In terms of overall profile, the questioner falls within the range of my past and current partners（笑） Incidentally, there’s currently only one girl I haven’t made an offer to but have saved as a favorite. Until recently there were two, but I made an offer to one, so now there’s only one left. Rather than simply prioritizing appearance, I think my range of “types” is probably extremely narrow. I’ve gone off on various tangents, but if we’re talking about whether there’s a possibility or not, I do think the questioner has a chance of meeting a wonderful man. As for clothing, I think it depends on the other person’s tastes, but something elegant and conservative should work as long as it suits you. Regarding places to meet, I’ve personally had successful relationships through dating clubs, bars (in decent areas), apps, and lounges. Overall, I think a dating club would be the best option. Leaving aside whether I’m a good example, making a certain amount of effort to attract men is important, but I also think luck plays a role in this. Everyone has different tastes in women. I’ve dated women with a strong sense of beauty and style, but I don’t think I’ve ever dated anyone quite as exceptional as the kind of woman Makeo-san is looking for. Of course, I wouldn’t mind being popular, but rather than wanting to be liked by everyone, I’d prefer to be liked by someone I personally find wonderful.

It’s the opposite. Don’t ask where you should go—become the place people want to go to. I’m constantly stirring up controversy, and both men and women on this Q&A site generally dislike me, but I don’t care. I have an ironclad mentality. Why? Because I’m absolutely confident that I work several—or even dozens—of times harder than they do to be attractive. You’re in bed right now, aren’t you? Probably. I’m at the gym right now, working on being attractive. It’s before 5:30 in the morning. I do an hour of strength training every morning, then a light workout and some running during the day. It’s all practically free—just determination and grit. As for muscle mass, I’m probably number one in the universe. Not that I’d know. I put so much effort and money into grooming that women’s lack of attention to their appearance can genuinely wear me out. I’m constantly focused on looking clean and well-groomed. I study bedroom skills so seriously that people joke I should become an adult-film actor. (I’m not saying I’m good at it.) I want to be attractive. So I do absolutely everything I can to achieve that. If you want to meet a wonderful man, do everything you possibly can to become desirable—as if your life depended on it. Everything. It’s not about where you go to meet someone. Even if there were a place full of wonderful men, the person asking this question probably wouldn’t be able to get anyone right now. It’s not where you go, but what you do. Start doing everything you can to become attractive, starting this very moment. Preparation is everything. You need to secure the win before you ever meet a wonderful person of the opposite sex. Are you really sure your level of cleanliness and grooming is good enough? Are you better groomed than me, a mere middle-aged guy? I’m seriously asking. Do you clean your room before a date? The final part of my pre-date routine is cleaning my room. It doesn’t matter whether a woman is actually coming over or not. The reason I don’t go to women’s homes is that their rooms are often dirtier than mine. It’s disappointing—the lack of attention to appearance. You can’t claim to care about your looks while keeping your room filthy. If the very first screw comes loose, you’ve already lost. If you can’t keep your room clean, then something—your clothes, your face, your hair, I don’t know—must be slipping when you go out. Have you polished your conversation skills? Have you trained and studied enough to make someone think, after a two-hour date with you, “That was fun”? You need to study LINE, too. At least when it comes to papa-katsu (compensated dating in Japan), I’m confident I can get a woman to agree to an adult relationship (intimate) within ten seconds of meeting her. In fact, I’ve never been turned down. It’s never taken a long time, either. I’m by no means handsome. I wish I’d been born as handsome as Early. But I’ve spent decades preparing myself to overwhelm women, so even though my face isn’t much to look at, I can still get results. Your effort will radiate from you like an aura. For women, if you work overwhelmingly hard to become attractive, your pheromones will spill out, and men will come flocking to you on their own. Let me repeat what I said at the beginning: Don’t ask where you should go—become the place people want to go to. Sorry for being so harsh. I sincerely hope that someday I’ll meet you somewhere, after you’ve become a wonderful woman. Finally, I’d like to leave you with some words that probably won’t resonate at all and will completely miss the mark. Please read them while feeling murderous toward me. They’re from the late Muscle Kitamura, the legendary bodybuilder I have endless respect for: “Those 999 repetitions and the final repetition are worth exactly the same.”

The second guy nobody asked for（笑） To be frank, I think you’d be better off applying for an interview at a members-only salon or a girls’ bar. The good thing about the nightlife business is that the establishment brings in customers and creates opportunities to match them with women. Unlike a hostess club, some places close by the last train and attract a pretty decent clientele. An entrepreneur I know was reeling them in left and right there by offering 100,000 yen per meeting. Even if an escort club is good at attracting members, you can’t meet anyone unless you receive an offer. If money is your main goal, I think working in nightlife is more efficient. Another tricky thing about escort clubs is that, even if you succeed in increasing your offers, you won’t just get a lot more from the Early-types—you’ll also get plenty from the Nashi-types. Some may give off that “Nashi-seki” vibe straight out of Japan’s high-growth era, while others may bounce around like “Funasshi.” Dealing with people you didn’t want to see is exhausting, and they’re probably thinking, “Then don’t invite me,” too, which makes for an unpleasant atmosphere all around. If you write “terms are my priority” in your profile, the Nashi-types will stay away, but then the Early-types won’t come either. So I think the optimal strategy is to present yourself as refined and hide your money-minded side, sucking everything in like a black hole, then spit out the Nashis the way you spit out watermelon seeds. (Nashis sounds like a chocolate brand when you make it plural.) I’ve been a Nashionist for several decades. A while back, people called me a “20th-century Nashi,” and lately I’ve been called a Neo-Nashi, so these days I live in fear of Putin’s assassins. But speaking on behalf of the pear orchard, I have to say: we really are a nuisance, and it makes both sides unhappy, so I hope you’ll give the nightlife route a try. I’m truly sorry, as always, for turning your serious question into a comedy routine without permission. I look forward to continuing our conversation. Taro

My ideal specs are: 18 to 50 years old 150 to 180 cm tall Specs of 90 to 100 Non-smoker, black hair Above all, someone funny. Since you’re an attractive, normally slim woman, perhaps you need something that makes you stand out—like a hobby that older men tend to enjoy.

So, my ideal specs are: Age 20–23 164 cm, “spec 115,” no cosmetic surgery No experience in sex work or the nightlife industry I even get scouted on the street. > “It’s honestly a nuisance and would make both sides unhappy, so I hope you’ll work hard in the nightlife industry instead.” I agree. Also, deep down, I wish vulgar men who say things like “It’s cheaper than an upscale hostess club, like the ones featured on blogs” would leave too. I consider hostess clubs and clubs to be completely different genres. I’d also prefer men and women who are fine with experienced women who go on accompanied dates to leave. But I think these communities develop precisely because there are so many different kinds of people in them.