Are there really papas who give PJ women 100,000 yen or more per dinner-only, pay-per-meeting date?

Good evening, I’m a papa who likes to show off. Yes, there are papas like that. First, the girl I had my first long-term arrangement with (we’ve since parted ways) was someone I met outside the club. She was in the Platinum class at the club, and there were times when other papas gave her that much for dinner only (no intimacy). It was essentially a B-type “type scam,” and we managed to make the relationship work quite well. Next, the Platinum-class girl I was in a long-term arrangement with (we’ve also since parted ways) ended up receiving over ¥100,000 per meeting from me. We met when I was on business trips, and she was also someone very important to me, so I gave her that amount even when, for various reasons, we couldn’t have an adult relationship (intimate). She was also using the B-type “type scam,” and I don’t think she had an adult relationship with anyone besides me. So, I have two real-life examples just from my own experience. The first girl only told me this herself, but we were close enough that she probably told me everything, so I believe it was true. As for the second girl, it’s true unless I’m making it up. Also, the girl I’m currently seeing outside the club is probably in a dinner-only relationship with me, but there’s likely someone else giving her about that much as well, since she earns a considerable amount at a lounge too. Hope this helps.

Some people enjoy a ¥300 Yoshinoya beef bowl, while others might find a ¥30,000 meal worth every penny. That kind of nearly hundredfold difference exists in all sorts of things—it really depends on the person. What value do you place on dinner dates, adult relationships, and so on? Some people see a big difference between dinner and an adult relationship, while others don’t see much of a difference at all. A therapist friend of mine who joined a club makes a pretty substantial amount from dinner-only dates.

There do seem to be women like that. For dinner only, the most I’ve ever received was 70,000–100,000 yen. In that case, as Make-Otoko mentioned, I met up with the man expecting an adult relationship (intimate), but it was canceled due to circumstances on his end. …Writing this reminded me: one time, we agreed that the payment would be made upfront for our next meeting, but he ended up marrying a celebrity, so that next meeting never happened after all, haha.

The women who say they get 10 per dinner on a pay-per-meeting basis may be PJs who have dated show-off papas like Mr. Early or me. In my case, I can’t have an adult relationship every time with a girl whose allowance is 20 per adult meeting, so sometimes we just go on a regular date. When that happens, I don’t want her thinking, “I could’ve gotten 20 if we’d had an adult relationship,” so I grit my teeth and give her 20 for dinner only. Naturally, there’s also some calculation behind it—I’m hoping she’ll favor me more because of that. Also, suppose one of my monthly arrangements messages me, “I’m sorry, I tested positive for chlamydia…” Then, the next day or the day after, if I’m meeting another monthly partner with whom I had planned an adult date, I’ll say, “Why don’t we just go out for dinner today?” and switch to a dinner date instead. But she was probably expecting the allowance for an adult relationship, so I have no choice but to give it to her anyway, right? I think the PJ who had these kinds of experiences is the one telling the questioner, “I got 20 for a dinner date.” And this isn’t limited to cases like mine. There are occasionally women who get their papa emotionally invested and keep asking for 10 for a dinner date. In the first place, I think it’s fairly common for hostesses and lounge girls to get 10 or even 20 just for dinner.

Apparently, some women do have a papa (a male supporter) like that. I’m sure some women exaggerate their stories, too. It doesn’t really concern me, so I don’t care.