From the moment I wake up until I go to bed, my every move is watched by my family, relatives, and people connected to the family business. I haven’t gone out alone for decades, including when I go out for drinks, so I struggled to figure out how to make time for dates.
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I explained that I would eventually break down mentally if things continued this way and that I needed some time alone once in a while. As a result, I’ve managed to arrange things so I can go out by myself one day a week.
For now, I’ve been using reasons such as going to a Zen retreat, visiting a mental health clinic, or going to the hospital for tests.
It’s been a month since I joined, and somehow I’ve managed to date successfully. However, thinking about the future, I would be grateful for any advice or good ideas you may have.
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Are you a member of the imperial family?
I thought it would be funny if someone from the imperial family used Universe.
Jokes aside—
Could he be the heir to a very large family-owned company?
I wonder how it would look for someone to suddenly join a dating club once he has more free time.
Maybe he should first try taking a men’s kimono-dressing class, swimming laps by himself at the pool, or doing something else to build up some history and credibility. Then, once once-a-week activities have become twice a week, gradually start incorporating relationships with women—starting with about once a month.
He may already have a private investigator following him, though.
Marika
Also, this wasn’t mentioned in the question itself, but since the tags said “married,” I’ll ask: Do you give your wife free time as well? Do you ever tell her, “I’ll look after the kids, so go out and enjoy some time by yourself”? If not, that’s something to work on too.
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Even though you’re being watched, you’re quite the operator yourself（笑）
Well, there’s no magic cure, but it looks like you’ve been managing to slip through the cracks, so keep figuring things out as you go.
Companies in the real world aren’t always stable, either. Just like running a business when you never know what might happen, you’ll have to keep thinking things through（笑）
It might even be fun to come up with an excuse for your next outing（笑）
And if thinking about all this feels like too much trouble, you could always quit（笑）
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If you make sure to actually attend your hospital checkups and manage your medication properly, I think you can live a full life.
Psychiatric clinics tend to be busy, so even if the appointment is far off, try to book one as soon as possible.
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