A question: How do you handle your wallet during an adult relationship (intimate) with a woman for the first time?
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I remember seeing a post in this Q&A box about a woman who takes ¥10,000 every time.
At the time, I thought, “No way,” but the other day, a woman I met for the first time took ¥10,000 from my wallet while I was asleep.
It was the first time I’d ever experienced anything like that, even in my private life, so I was genuinely shocked.
I didn’t report it to the club because I had no proof—and I was worried she might have taken a photo of my driver’s license or something, and that she might hold a grudge. But there’s no mistake: I always put the agreed amount of cash in my wallet before leaving.
I think it was Mac-san who once said that he deliberately gives his favorite women low ratings, and gives high ratings if he wasn’t satisfied with them…
That was really helpful advice.
I gave that woman five stars. I also gave her the highest rating possible.
I’m asking this question in the hope that it will be useful not only to veterans like the other respondents, but also to people who are just starting papa-katsu (compensated dating in Japan) or are considering it.
Thank you.
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I always shower first, so I bring my wallet into the shower room and put it in the safe while the woman is taking her turn.
It’s also important to make sure she knows to take her belongings with her when she showers. This helps prevent false accusations.
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I have absolutely no experience with anything like that.
But I think you should always take your wallet into the shower room with you when you shower.
It’s an adult courtesy—so you don’t turn the other person into a criminal.
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> A woman I met for the first time took ¥10,000 from my wallet while I was asleep.
First of all, taking ¥10,000 is theft. A woman who does that is committing a crime.
That said, let me be blunt:
> A woman I met for the first time took ¥10,000 from my wallet while I was asleep.
You slept with a woman on the very day you met her for the first time?
You slept?
You slept?
I honestly don’t understand what you were thinking. The woman probably didn’t know what to do either. Should she leave? Should she wait until you woke up?
It makes no sense.
I can understand falling asleep after you’ve gotten close to someone, but falling asleep in front of someone you’ve just met means there was a problem with your behavior. Even if you’re tired, you shouldn’t sleep in front of someone you’re meeting for the first time.
That seems like basic common sense to me.
> What does everyone do with their wallet during an adult relationship (intimate) with a woman they’re meeting for the first time?
It’s not a matter of what you should do with your wallet. Just don’t fall asleep. If you had stayed awake, your money wouldn’t have been taken.
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Until we’ve gotten to know and trust each other, I tell them to take their valuables with them to the changing area when they shower or bathe. I do the same.
Also, I absolutely don’t sleep over until we’ve been seeing each other for several months. Even if I do end up falling asleep, I stay alert enough to wake up at the slightest movement.
Trusting people too much can come back to hurt you.
I’ve had a stalker before, so...
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Universe Club Customer Success 1, Teramoto, here.
First, I sincerely apologize for the trouble we caused you. I’m truly sorry.
As for your wallet, I suppose you have two options: either keep it with you at all times—apparently, the most dangerous time is when you’re in the shower—or deliberately leave it out in the open with an attitude of, “Go ahead and steal it if you can.”
In the latter case, it would be completely meaningless if the other person failed to pick up on the hint, so I think the safer bet is the former.
Taking only your wallet with you to the area outside the shower would make it blatantly obvious that you’re suspicious. So perhaps you could keep things you normally use in the shower, such as shampoo or hair wax, in your bag and bring it with you, giving the woman the impression that you’re not carrying it because you suspect her, but simply because you want to use the toiletries inside. Helping her feel at ease may also be important for building a good relationship.
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