I have a favorite woman in her early 30s. How many offers does a popular woman around 30 typically receive, from the past up to the present?

I’m Hima-tan, in my late 20s to early 30s. I have about two arrangements a month, and since I mainly do letter dates, I exchange LINE messages with almost everyone every day. I’ve had several dozen arrangements in the roughly six months since joining. I’ve heard I have a perfect rating, and I’ve also been told my rank. (Don’t tell anyone!) That said, I don’t have that many favorites, so I don’t think I’m particularly popular. What exactly are you hoping to find out by asking a question like this?

I think it depends on how long the woman has been registered and on her lifestyle. There’s probably no need to explain what I mean by how long she’s been registered. The reason lifestyle matters is that some women lead perfectly ordinary lives and only need to do papa-katsu once or twice a week. Once they register and their schedule starts filling up far in advance, they may temporarily hide their profiles. In other words, some women may want to hide their profiles once they have five offers, while others may wait until ten. Some may even keep going until they reach twenty. There are also women who meet a papa they feel is right for them within their first three offers and then leave the site. The number of offers is a reliable conversation topic to bring up when you haven’t found anything else to get excited about together, but I think that’s about all it amounts to. Whether she has received 100 offers or just one has nothing to do with the fact that she has chosen to keep seeing me, does it? This isn’t an auction for tuna or cuts of meat. Just because a piece gets more bids and sells for a higher price doesn’t mean it tastes better. Besides, not everyone thinks marbled wagyu is delicious or particularly wants to eat it. I’m not denying that there are different ways to enjoy life, but isn’t it rather confining to live while relying so heavily on the value other people assign to you? Getting hung up on how many people your partner has been with—is that a high school or college student’s mentality? Ah, youth. If she’s been with a lot of men, that probably means there’s a greater chance she’ll provide plenty of entertaining dirty jokes.

It probably depends on how popular she is, but if she’s that kind of woman, she’s likely receiving offers on an ongoing basis, so there’s not much point in worrying about the exact number. I think having rivals appear can actually create a healthy sense of tension. Also, this is just speculation, but if she’s continuing to stay registered, it may mean she’s dissatisfied with either you or her other papas. It would be more productive to address the issue so you don’t have to worry about it.

Once you receive more than ten offers, I’d say you’re definitely a popular woman. Also, I agree with Paper Airplane’s point that, for highly popular five-star women who have received 30-plus offers and dated various men, the allowance tends to become less important. After being fed up with unpleasant men who offer high allowances, they’ll be perfectly willing to see an ordinary “nice guy” even for a pay-per-meeting allowance of 50,000 yen.

I’ve only ever made offers to women in their early 30s when they had just joined, but even that one received four or five offers within her first two or three days. It seems that the popular ones get anywhere from a dozen to more than 20 offers in a week. Women who can’t keep up with their schedules may be hidden from the listings and then shown again later. (Even if you did manage to meet them, the timing had to work out just right.) Even aside from that, if a woman receives more than 30 offers in her first month, it becomes difficult to even set up the first date because of all the scheduling. While that’s happening, Paper Airplane can quickly meet her two, three, or even four times on consecutive days—perhaps before her allowance shoots up to two or three times as much… while no one else has managed to meet her for the first or second date yet. After that, she meets one supporter after another, and after a while some of them completely change, asking for 60,000 or 70,000 yen just for dinner. At that point, all Paper Airplane can do is wait until, perhaps a year later, she says, “Paper Airplane, I want to see you and talk, regardless of the allowance.” Popular women never run out of offers, even after a year. So, in theory, they continue receiving 30-plus offers in their first month, followed by three or four a month for 12 months—around 66 to 78 offers in total. When someone receives that many offers, the allowance amount is no longer the deciding factor. For Paper Airplane, that’s the next-best opportunity after catching someone just after she joins. In fact, it’s easier to make other papas’ involvement impossible at that stage, allowing things to progress at our own pace so she can take her time and recognize the difference.

I think once you’ve received more than 20 offers in total, it’s fair to call yourself “popular.” Sorry to use someone in her 20s as an example, but a woman I met recently said she’d received 30 offers in just two or three weeks. She apparently hid her profile because she couldn’t keep up with them. At that point, I’d call her “very popular.” That said, she told me that before me, only one papa (a male supporter) had seemed open to an adult relationship (intimate). It had been a long time since I’d made an ace request, and she was the first woman I’d promised a monthly arrangement with before becoming intimate. I’m feeling both excited and anxious about how things will develop. So, in conclusion: - 10 total offers: Not quite popular, but still plenty - 20 total offers: Popular woman - 30 total offers: Very popular - 40 total offers: Extremely popular Something along those lines, I suppose.

It’s only natural to wonder, right? You gather all kinds of information and try to make predictions, or draw your own line in the sand and decide that you could accept up to around ten people. Then, after getting close and finally asking her, she casually tells you the truth—and you’re crushed by reality. Choosing to be pragmatic from the start so you don’t get hurt is mature in its own way, but struggling with it right to the end is part of being young too, isn’t it? I don’t know which type the questioner is, but since you’re not hurting anyone, I think you should enjoy things in whichever way feels right to you. Incidentally, there was a similar question in the past that was answered with data, so you might be able to find it by searching. These days, though, the number of male members has been increasing, so popular women probably receive quite a lot of offers. One woman I used to see told me she had received around 60 offers within about a month of registering. We were pretty close and spoke casually with each other, but the moment I heard that, I was so shocked that I instinctively switched to polite speech—and she actually laughed at me for it. She was puzzled, wondering, “Why have I received so many offers?” So I gave her my own analysis: “Well, of course you have. You’re ●●, and you also have that □□ side to you…” Then it turned into an exchange of compliments, with her shyly saying, “I find you attractive too, Taro. You’re XX, and you have that ＊＊＊ side as well…” Thinking this was my chance, I confessed that I liked her—but she gently brushed it off at 3 a.m. That’s the story. Still, she seemed happy. I think men should actively put themselves through defeats like that. (Just sour grapes, lol.) What was I talking about again? I’ve gone so far off track that I’ve ended up a long way from the original topic, haha. Anyway, to answer the question: popular women receive a lot of offers. Don’t feel disappointed or jealous thinking, “She’s been with so many men.” You’re in the same boat, aren’t you? Instead, think carefully about what it means that she still chooses to meet you despite receiving so many offers. Then become the kind of man who can properly live up to that. Taro

Even if you ask how many offers popular women receive, I feel that’s completely separate from how many offers your favorite girl gets. If they’re entirely unrelated, that information wouldn’t really be helpful. What do you think?