I’m Potassium, a female member.
(I’m the type who doesn’t get many offers.)
Since there weren’t any answers, and I posted something similar the other day, I’ll answer based on what I know as a fellow female member.
〇 A red “new” label appears, but no registered members show up when you check the list
→ My guess is that a private male member added you to his favorites.
〇 How long the “new” label stays
→ There’s no way for female members to know.
Based on what I’ve observed (assuming I haven’t been added to someone’s private favorites without realizing it), I think it might be three days.
You’d have to ask the site administrators for the actual number…
※ If someone removes you from their favorites, you won’t receive a notification, so you can’t know the current number of people who have favorited you, including private members.
If you’d like to receive offers, I recommend making good use of the “You’re lovely” feature! I’ve received several offers through it.
Also, after reading the question box and seeing that I had so few favorites, I really struggled with the looks-based culture. If the person asking feels even a little discouraged about that too, I really want to say: please don’t let it get to you! I’d be happy if we could both enjoy papa-katsu (compensated dating in Japan) and do our best!
Just my personal opinion.
