I always enjoy reading your Q&A posts.

¥500,000 a month is more than enough. After that, I think you also need luck and confidence. In your 40s, if you’ve had plenty of experience with women, that’s often the peak of your appeal. It might be a good idea to gain some experience outside the club first and build up your confidence before giving it a try. As for how much confidence you need, I think that to maintain an ongoing relationship with a wonderful woman, you need enough confidence and nerve to almost trick yourself into thinking, “Maybe I’m the most popular male member here.” By the way, when I joined a sports club as a student, I was full of enthusiasm, thinking, “Maybe I could make it to the Olympics!” But then—huh? I wasn’t any good at all. I couldn’t even make it to the national championships. I was just an embarrassingly delusional dreamer…

If you offer a ¥70,000 allowance per meeting, about 90% of the women at Universe will accept. Try making offers to every Platinum- or Black-class woman at ¥70,000 per meeting. You’ll find a lovely woman within about six months.

I’m not sure what level you mean by a “wonderful woman,” but when it comes to budget, you can control your expenses to some extent by controlling how often you go on dates. Let’s say you need to meet an average of 10 women before finding someone you really click with. That would mean making 10 offers, but if you limit yourself to two offers per month, I think you could manage on a budget of around ¥500,000 per month. Once you find someone you like, you could stop making offers and simply meet that one woman twice a month, which should keep you within budget. Of course, if you want to make more offers because you’re eager to find the right person quickly, or if you want to see her every week after finding someone you like, it could become more difficult. But if you can control those things yourself, I think it’s a budget you can manage without any problems.

If the tens digit of that 50 is correct, that should be enough. However… you’ll need to approach the relationship with humility, or you may end up simply being taken for your money. Please be careful.

¥500,000 a month should be more than enough. It may cost a bit at first, including the fees for making offers, but try reaching out to several people. The more people you meet, the better your chances of finding a match. Then, narrow it down to the people you’d like to see again and see how things develop, while continuing to make new offers in parallel lol. Once you find someone you’d like to continue seeing, and feel it would be better to put your new-offer budget toward them, you can stop making new offers. If you’ve been dating someone for more than ten dates and are having fun together, focusing exclusively on them can work too. It’s a win-win for both of you, so I think that’s perfectly fine. That’s what I do lol.

If you have nothing going for you, attractive women at an escort club won’t give you the time of day. No money! No skills! If you’ve got nothing to offer, it’s honestly going to be very difficult. In that case, you’d better at least be handsome. If you’re confident enough to say, “I’m a good-looking guy!” then by all means, sign up. Once word gets around that there are good-looking men at the club, more attractive women will join. The current male lineup is full of unpopular, unattractive, horny old men… We need to change things!

Money and sexual technique may be necessary to some extent, but treating your partner with consideration and building the relationship carefully is even more important and will likely lead to a more fulfilling arrangement. I’m not sure what kind of relationship you’re looking for, but I think a monthly allowance of 500,000 yen should be enough for an arrangement. I hope you join and meet someone wonderful!

I’m not rich. I’d say I’m just fairly well-off, and a monthly budget of 500,000 yen seems fairly close to what I spend. I’m not sure what kind of woman you mean by “a wonderful woman,” but I met someone wonderful through my very first offer. We’re still seeing each other two years later. Unless you’re trying to date several wonderful women at the same time, I think 500,000 yen is more than enough. Update: Since the end of the month is approaching, I looked over my spending for this month. 1. A-chan contacted me because she was free and wanted to meet. Since we only had a room date, I gave her an allowance of 50,000 yen. 2. A foursome with B-chan, C-chan, and another man: 50,000 yen each, plus 20,000 yen for dinner. I split the hotel cost with the other man, so my share was 10,000 yen. Total: 130,000 yen. 3. A date with D-chan: 20,000 yen for dinner, 50,000 yen allowance, and 20,000 yen for the hotel. Total: 90,000 yen. 4. A date with E-chan: 10,000 yen for dinner, and 200,000 yen for her allowance and a gift. Total: 210,000 yen. 5. Going out with a woman through a salon: 100,000 yen setup fee, 10,000 yen for her transportation, and 20,000 yen for food. Total: 130,000 yen. 6. Participating in a membership simulation at Universe Lounge: 0 yen. That came to 610,000 yen in total. I had fewer dates than usual this month because of Obon and one woman catching COVID, but there were also some events. Overall, I’d say this is about what I spend each month. With 500,000 yen, you can date several wonderful women. Update 2: If I include the two STI tests, that adds another 25,000 yen each, or 50,000 yen total. That brings it to 660,000 yen. I had two tests this month: one as a precaution because of the group encounter, and the other because a date was canceled when a woman caught COVID, I got frustrated, and ended up going to a soapland. It was a condom-only place costing about 30,000 yen in total, but I thought it felt unusually good. Afterward, I realized the woman had been on top of me without putting one on, and I panicked. If you’re also counting sex-related spending outside the club, add another 30,000 yen. That brings the grand total to 690,000 yen. Update 3: It’s true—Mac-san really is rich. I also thought Mac-san was better at sex.

I’m Potassium, a female member. Personally, I don’t think there’s any need to compare yourself with other people. I think you should find a woman who suits you and build the kind of relationship that feels right for you. If you’re someone who genuinely cares about the woman you’re seeing, I’m sure you’ll find a wonderful woman. And if, along the way, you can discover together with her the appealing qualities you have as a mature man that you haven’t noticed yourself, wouldn’t that make things even more enjoyable? That’s what this twenty-something Potassium thinks, anyway. Just my personal opinion.