I went on my first date with someone I met through this club, and we became intimate. When things progressed, there was quite a strong odor from her genital area, and it was a turnoff. Ladies, how aware are you of your own scent? Would you feel offended if a man pointed it out?
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She’s beautiful, has a great figure, and has a lovely personality, so it seems like such a shame. Should I point it out so she can be more mindful of it?
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You get used to your own smell because you notice it every day, so you may not realize it anymore.
If it’s only slightly fishy, it could be due to your period or feeling a little unwell. But a strong, pungent odor is a red flag, and I think you should see a doctor.
If you’re close, you really have to be careful with your wording, or you could hurt the other person’s feelings.
I once had a woman I was seeing on a monthly arrangement for about a year develop a fishy odor. I told her I’d add the cost of an examination and treatment to her next allowance, and she went to the doctor and got better.
If I notice that kind of odor at the first meeting, I end things.
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Please gently insert a finger into the vagina and apply it to the nose.
A very strong odor could be a sign of an STI, so please be careful.
Is Mac referring to the Petit Shower Sepe? It can be used to rinse the inside of the vagina.
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I think most women would be hurt if a man they haven’t built a relationship of trust with said it to them so bluntly…
If you do decide to bring it up, I hope you’ll find a way to do so without hurting her feelings any more than necessary.
If it were me, I might say something like, “I found this—would you like to try it?” and give her the kind of product Mac-san mentioned… maybe.
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Being told you smell by someone you’re meeting for the first time would be pretty shocking, embarrassing, and painful.
If you’re going to point something like that out, I think it’s better to first show that you want to keep seeing them, as Rin suggested, by saying something like, “I’m telling you because I’d like us to keep meeting.”
You could also turn the focus on yourself first, saying, “If I ever have something like nose hair sticking out, please let me know,” to show that you’re mindful of these things too.
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I understand why you want to point it out, but depending on the relationship, it may sometimes be best to say nothing and simply fade out.
Some women may feel even more irritated or anxious if a papa they aren’t close to points out something so sensitive.
However, if you’d like to continue seeing her a second or third time, you might try saying something like, “I’m sorry if I made you uncomfortable. I was just worried you might not be feeling well…”
Apparently, I’ve always naturally been odorless. Even when I repeatedly ask my partner, they keep telling me there’s “absolutely no taste or smell.” I don’t think it’s good to over-clean yourself either, but sometimes I wonder whether being so lacking in human qualities is really okay.
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If you’ve become close, it might be okay to point it out, but telling someone directly when you’re not close yet seems difficult.
For example, imagine that, on the very first day and in the same situation, someone told you:
“Your intimate area smells. It’s quite strong.”
Would you really appreciate being told?
I think everyone would want to know, but if someone they’ve just met said it to them, it probably wouldn’t feel very good.
How aware are you of your own scent?
I think it’s actually pretty hard to know what you smell like yourself.
P.S. If you mean buying and giving them something like the item Mac mentioned, that seems like a good idea.
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You’re not really aware of your own scent. I’m sorry.
No one has ever said anything to me so far, but I do feel bad and worry that I might smell unpleasant after my period.
It’s not just about smell, but if there’s ever anything about me that makes you uncomfortable, I’d rather you tell me. I’d feel really sorry, but if it’s something I can fix, I’d want to work on it.
That said, it is a sensitive subject, so I think you should be careful about how you bring it up. It probably depends on the woman, too.
Personally, I’d like you to say, “I want us to keep seeing each other, so please let me tell you something.” Otherwise, I might assume you’re about to say goodbye.
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