Would the ladies be willing to meet me? They’ve been contacting me, but work has gotten busy lately, so I haven’t been able to meet them very often.
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If I asked them to come meet me in my area, which is 40–50 minutes by train from our usual meeting place, would you offer extra allowance in that situation?
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I don’t offer extra just because it takes 40–50 minutes one way.
That said, since the allowance for dinner only is just 1, I might cover the actual travel expenses if I’m asking her to come to me.
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Of course, if I feel that you’ve gone out of your way to come see me, I’ll add a little extra.
The allowance for the adult part is pretty modest, but I show my gratitude and happiness by handing it over promptly, sometimes with a little surprise each time.
Women don’t like having money’s power flaunted in front of them, and if the amount is too large, they may hesitate to accept it. But when it’s just right, they can honestly react with, “Wow, yay!” And when it’s unexpected, it makes them even happier. Finding that balance they can relate to is important.
Understanding a woman’s sense of money, rather than going by your own standards, also helps her feel understood and gives her a strong sense of security.
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At the very least, please cover their actual train fare as well…
They may feel anxious if you suddenly become unable to meet, so explain why—something like, “Work has been so busy that I haven’t had time to travel…”—and let them know you’ll cover their train fare. Then ask if they’d be willing to come on a date.
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I only meet women who say they’re willing to come, and I don’t add anything extra.
If their actual one-way travel costs exceed a few thousand yen, I might give them ¥10,000 to cover the round-trip transportation expenses.
There are also a few women who travel 40–50 minutes each way to meet me in Tokyo, but I still don’t add anything extra.
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If you’re the one thinking, “I really want to see her,” then I think the classy thing to do would be either to accommodate that, or, considering the time it takes to travel there and back, meet just for dinner and give her an allowance plus transportation costs.
As you know, when a woman says she wants to see you, it’s basically the same as saying, “I’d like an allowance…”
If you want to see her that badly, I think you should go yourself—even if it means making a quick round trip—have tea together, and recharge by seeing her cute smile. Of course, make sure you give her an allowance.
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