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Aug 20, 2022 17:30
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I’d like to give my papa (a male supporter) a birthday present he’d enjoy, but he can buy anything he wants for himself. When I asked, he said there was nothing he wanted. So I asked a female friend for advice, and she said the best option would be to use my sexy body as a weapon—wear a naked apron or wrap a ribbon around myself and say, “Do whatever you want with me♡” I understand she was joking, but would he be happy if I tempted him by wearing sexy lingerie that I don’t normally wear? Or would it put him off? Men, please tell me about gifts you’ve been happy to receive, and women, I’d love to hear about anything that made your papa happy. This is Miki.
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Joe,
Thank you for your comment!
Your high school uniform? You wrote that it was a surprise, but do men actually feel happy about that?
Is it the appeal of the contrast?
Aya,
Photos and videos of your memories are something special just for the two of you, so that would make a wonderful gift ♡ I’ll start gathering some data right away too! Since I’m always the one being treated to meals, I think men would also appreciate it when women make an effort to pamper them!
Spring Summer Autumn Winter,
That’s absolutely true! I think he’d be happy if you planned the date yourself and included various things you thought he might enjoy! This was really helpful.
Paper Airplane,
Thank you for the additional details. When you say a massage while naked, do you mean things like rubbing his shoulders or pressing on his lower back while naked? Or is there some special massage technique involved? I’ve never had that kind of experience, and I’d feel embarrassed being naked in a brightly lit room, so I can’t really picture it… If you don’t mind, I’d love for you to tell me more about it sometime.
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What’s been appreciated most so far was probably the video I sent looking back on the past year with my papa (a male supporter).
I put together a memory-album video with photos and clips, adding captions and effects. Physical albums can be hard to find space for, so making it digital was also my way of being considerate.
For someone I didn’t have any photos or videos with, I think they appreciated it when I said, “Dinner’s on me today!” and treated them to one of their favorite meals.
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The biggest surprise was when she took off her coat and revealed a sailor-style school uniform underneath. It was actually her own high school uniform—her winter one—from a girls’ school in Minato Ward. She was the last person I’d have expected to do something like that, so I was doubly surprised. The following year, she wore the summer uniform, which is another fond memory.
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Kazu, you’re definitely voting for lingerie!
If it were lingerie you picked out, I’d be happy to wear it!
Paper Airplane,
First of all, congratulations! I’ll make a point of paying closer attention to the things my papa usually uses.
Tsubaki,
“Something you’d like to experience at least once in your life” is a really great topic! I never would have thought of it. I’ll ask him next time. Thank you♪
Akari,
I’d love to hear what kind of sexy lingerie you have in mind! I’ll look it up.
Marika,
Thank you! A massage with nicely scented body oil is such a thoughtful and special gift—it sounds wonderful!
I’ll do it wearing nothing but an apron, lol.
Early,
You really do buy everything for yourself, don’t you?
That’s exactly why I’m trying to think of a special, heartfelt gift that money can’t buy.
Do you like lingerie, nothing-but-an-apron, and nothing-but-a-ribbon too? lol
Maybe I’ll seriously give it a try (°▽°)
Osaka,
Do you think it would be okay for me to do this, considering my usual persona?
I’ll report back again, lol.
Makeo,
I actually took the plunge and bought black-and-red sheer lingerie, garter belts, and thigh-highs!
Now all I need is the courage, lol.
So a nothing-but-a-ribbon look might be too much for someone like me and turn him off! Maybe sexy lingerie really is the way to go.
Thank you as always for encouraging me.
I want to stay grateful to my papa, avoid becoming arrogant, and keep working hard.
Rin,
He told me he doesn’t want a gift, so I’ve been racking my brain trying to figure out what he’d be happy with… I’ll definitely report back, including his reactions and whether I try everything little by little, lol.
Let’s do it together, Rin(^^)
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What a wonderful surprise!
More than anything, I think she’ll be happiest knowing that you put so much thought into it!
I’d love to try wearing lingerie like a ribbon around nothing but my bare skin, or an apron with nothing underneath! Haha. It’s not really my style, I don’t have a body that would get anyone particularly excited, and it probably wouldn’t suit me—but I’d still like to try it at least once in my life!
Please let us know what surprise you went with and how your papa (a male supporter) reacted!
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When you come out of the shower, maybe wrap yourself in a bath towel or wear a bathrobe?
A foolproof surprise might be to wear some really sexy black or red lingerie with a garter belt underneath.
Being naked with just a ribbon might not suit Misato’s personality and could fall flat—but I don’t think there’s a man out there who wouldn’t be pleased to see a sexy body with a garter belt.
In any case, you sound so happy—it’s wonderful to see. Only a very small handful of women find happiness through papa-katsu (compensated dating in Japan), so you’re truly among the most fortunate.
Wishing you and your papa (a male supporter) 100 happy years together♪
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I’m not joking—I think it’s a great idea. I’ve never had anyone do something like that for me, so I’d be really happy if someone actually did! It’d be etched in my memory for life, seriously lol.
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When I’m asked what I’d like as a present, I also say I don’t need anything because I can buy whatever I want myself(笑)
That said, I’ve been happy to receive handmade things, as well as things I can wear. Even though I say I don’t need anything, I’m touched when I can tell that someone did something especially for me or put a lot of thought into it.
There have been times when I thought I’d rather receive nothing than be given some random, thoughtless purchase.
It’s never happened to me, but I think I’d be happy if someone tempted me in sexy lingerie, wore nothing but an apron, or showed up naked with a ribbon(笑)
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If you did something like that, I’m sure your papa would be absolutely smitten with you.
A gift one of my papas really loved was a nicely scented body oil. I used it to give my papa, who’s into triathlons, a massage. Of course, I gave him the oil afterward as well.
Marika
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I used to be too shy to even take a bath with my papa, but I tried wearing the sexy lingerie he liked.
I was incredibly embarrassed, but he was absolutely thrilled.
It’s a fond memory.
Akari
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I think a gift of an experience rather than an item feels more heartfelt and is likely to be appreciated!
When we talked about things we’d like to experience at least once in our lives, the conversation got more lively than I expected, and we had a great time. It also gives you ideas for future dates!
Having your friend wear nothing but a ribbon is another option, too (lol).
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Basically, gifts aren’t necessary, but there are women who give presents that genuinely make you happy.
Singing, dancing, and seduction are certainly nice too (and they’re things you can remember every birthday), but they aren’t essential either. Even just a simple “Happy birthday” is enough.
The best gifts are things you can wear or use regularly—items that are about due for replacement, or things you can have more than one of without any problem. Ideally, they should also be tasteful without being too flashy.
Since the man can use them regularly without worrying about how they look to others, I think the feelings between you become even more meaningful.
For example: belts, coin purses, key chains, scarves, and money clips.
If he isn’t actually around the time when he needs to replace one of these, receiving it could be more of a burden, so please keep that in mind. It makes me really happy when someone has been paying attention and notices that it’s about time.
Other than that, a celebratory LINE message right at midnight—or being the very first to wish him a happy birthday—would be nice too.
As for the lingerie seduction, if you can do that kind of thing, you should probably make it part of your usual routine.
P.S.
So you’re Misei-san. Sorry, I only just noticed.
Surprises are always nice, and the massage Marika-san wrote about would definitely be appreciated.
What I especially recommend is having Misei-san give him a massage while she’s naked. I think it would fulfill a man’s fantasies in a big way. Men can receive a massage while naked at places like spas in Bali or esthetic salons. But there’s nothing quite like a man, also naked, massaging a naked woman. Especially when she’s a beautiful woman he absolutely adores. It’s like enjoying the first stage of foreplay exactly as he wishes, with his excitement at its peak.
A man may feel that it’s an even more wonderful experience than sex. And if he’s good at massage, the woman can relax while being massaged thoroughly by someone she trusts, gradually being guided into a world of comfort and pleasure.
It becomes amazing foreplay in itself. It might even be an unbelievably pleasurable kind of foreplay.
I truly recommend it. The woman I’m currently seeing and I massage each other, and it’s absolutely incredible. I’m so happy.
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I think she’d be happy with lingerie!
I give women lingerie as gifts fairly often.