Think of the factors mentioned in the question as combinations of two elements:
- Sense of cleanliness
- Body type
- Height
- Hair
- Youthful appearance
- Fashion
For example, with “cleanliness” × “body type,” even if someone is very clean, they won’t be popular if their body type scores zero—meaning they look sloppy.
Likewise, looking at “body type” × “hair,” even a slim person probably won’t be popular if their hair scores zero—meaning they give off an unkempt impression, including being bald.
In any case, I think getting at least average marks in all these areas is the first step toward being attractive. What do you think?
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Maybe in this order:
1. Personal hygiene
2. Looking young
3. Body type
4. Looking young
5. Fashion
6. Hair
7. Height
I’d rather be with someone who’s easy to talk to than focus too much on looks ⸜( ･ᴗ･ )⸝
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From a woman’s perspective, there are two types of papa (male supporters): ones she’d be willing to sleep with, and ones she wouldn’t.
You can try to assess him afterward based on the criteria the questioner listed, but that doesn’t really get to the heart of it. There may be men who pass every item on the list yet still aren’t men she’d want to sleep with. Conversely, even a man who fails every item might still be someone she’d be willing to sleep with.
As for what the deciding factor is, honestly, I don’t know. That’s why I think you have no choice but to meet him and see.
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Compared with the other factors, “looking clean and well-groomed” is pretty vague and subjective… In a way, I feel like it encompasses everything except height?!
There’s nothing you can do about your height, but the other things can probably be improved if you pay attention to them?!
And this applies not only to men, but to women as well…
You can’t do anything about your height, but you can control your body shape to some extent, and you can keep your hair neat—or go to a salon and have it styled properly.
The same goes for looking youthful and dressing well. With your skin and other aspects of your appearance, you can do quite a lot yourself if you take care of them.
I think neglecting those things is what makes someone seem not well-groomed—or perhaps lacking a sense of occasion.
There’s no particular order, but if you expect these things from your partner, they’re all things you should pay attention to yourself as well.
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Other than height and hair, everything else can be changed, so to some extent, all of those other things are probably essential.
I was trying to change out of my summer shirt when my wife cheerfully started teasing me, singing, “Piggy, piggy, your body’s so stiff~~,” and laughing at the way I was taking it off…
I really need to get back to weighing height minus 110 as soon as possible…
I’ve been reflecting on how thinking “this is good enough” in the first place is just too complacent…
I got briefly motivated after seeing Masato’s personal-training results on TV, but…
If you want to remain a good papa (a male supporter), you have to put in the effort too, so shouldn’t you maintain a physique close to your ideal weight from your student days? The other factors are only going to decline… Even at the same weight, you lose muscle and gain fat…
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It can be expressed as a formula:
Clean-cut appearance = body type × height × hair × youthful looks × fashion × scent
So, it’s not about the order.
Even if a man has a slim, toned build and looks like a handsome older gentleman with a clean-cut appearance when undressed, if he shows up to the first meeting in shabby clothes, the impression will be:
“A good-looking but unkempt older man showed up.”
As a result, a C-type woman might even turn down an adult relationship.
Oh, and the above isn’t my personal opinion—I’m just summarizing what I’ve heard from my monthly partners.
Some women say bald men are a no-go, or that they can’t be with overweight men, while others say they don’t mind someone hairy. It really varies from woman to woman.
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It’s less about looking clean and more about whether he’s actually hygienic.
Beyond that, it depends on his personality and overall vibe, so it’s hard to rank them. Height and whether he’s bald are probably the least important to me. It’s not like those are things he can control anyway.
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It depends on the person.
That said, I think looking clean and well-groomed is by far the most important thing for everyone. It’s really about your overall presentation.
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