I suppose I should ask the club directly, but...
I understand that a section called “Special Notes from the Club” may appear on my profile. Is it possible for me to view it myself?
A female member commented, “You’re wonderful,” followed by, “The Special Notes from the Club are especially wonderful.”
It sounds like they wrote something positive, but I’m a little curious about what it says.
Thank you in advance.
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I would assume he was trying to pique people’s interest by mentioning something that couldn’t be seen from the profile itself.
Women don’t know what is visible to men and what isn’t, though. (That’s why I feel like there have been questions in the past along the lines of, “Why do some men have special notes on their profiles while others don’t?”) So I don’t think that was the intention.
Going forward, because of this question, I think some people who know him may come forward, but…
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Female member Potassium here.
As someone who’s been agonizing for over 30 minutes about how to sum up the “You seem wonderful” section in 200 characters and convey my feelings, I’ll give my two cents! lol
It’s already been pointed out that men can’t see it themselves, so speaking from my own experience:
I want to mention that women may not know the fact that men can’t see the special notes section!
I’ve only been with the club for a very short time and I’m not good at summarizing, but I can understand why, when struggling to fit everything into 200 characters, you’d want to write something like, “I love what you wrote in the special notes about ___.”
Just my opinion.
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I believe that most things people say have some kind of intention behind them.
In this case, I’d assume she was trying to spark interest by mentioning something she couldn’t actually see herself: “The special notes from the club are especially appealing.”
I’d consider that rather calculated, so I wouldn’t make her an offer. She may have written it without any ill intent, but I’m not interested in meeting someone who would write something so thoughtlessly.
As I mentioned earlier, it’s something she herself can’t verify.
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I think it’s the same reason women can’t view their own profiles.
I’m not saying I doubt you, but if you could find out just by asking, then even someone with negative feedback could simply ask what had been written about them.
If you haven’t done anything wrong, it’s best not to worry about what it says.
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