I’m thinking of signing up this month or next, but I’m uncomfortable with leaving my face photo and profile up for a long time if I don’t receive any offers.
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Generally, how long after signing up do offers tend to come in?
If nothing happens, I’d like to quit cleanly and move on.
I’ve been scouted as a model before, and I’d say I’m probably in the top three looks-wise in my grade.
Just my impression, but women who are attractive, have a great figure, and seem to have a nice personality naturally receive a lot of offers. They often find a papa quickly and then leave the club or put their account on hold.
That said, arrangements with a papa tend to end after two or three years, so some women seem to restart and keep their profiles active for a few months at a time.
Why not set your own profile listing period—say, one to three months—and give it a try?
One thing that concerns me is that the tone of your writing doesn’t come across as particularly pleasant, so please be careful during your interview and with your profile.
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I didn’t want to show my face either, so I registered under the secret option. If I remember correctly, no photos are shown at all. After that, just like Marika, I went from taking a break to withdrawing my membership.
If you openly share your thoughts and concerns with the staff, they’ll suggest the best option for you.
That said, don’t just tell them, “I absolutely don’t want anyone to recognize me.” Make sure you also convey that you’re genuinely interested in finding someone through the dating club. Otherwise, they might think you’re not really serious about it…
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I understand how you feel. You don’t want to keep your profile up forever, right?
In my case, I received several offers soon after signing up, and I realized it would be difficult to manage all the dates, so I asked the staff to put my account on hold. Later, I reactivated it, received a few more offers, and put it on hold again right away.
I can’t exactly recommend doing this openly, but I think it’s best to decide that you’ll quit once you find the right person and go on dates with a few people first.
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Offers aren’t based on looks alone.
Some women are beautiful but receive fewer offers than they expected.
Men with plenty of experience can usually tell what kind of beautiful women tend to receive fewer offers.
Generally speaking, the first month or two after registering is crucial.
Hopefully, you’ll find a good person during that time.
We look forward to your registration.
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I went to an all-boys middle and high school, so I’m talking about elementary school. If she ranked third in the grade, then after Hidemi and Tomoko, it would be Harumi.
With that in mind, I’d say you can register with confidence. That said, this was 45 years ago, so I can’t guarantee that Harumi really was third in the grade.
The club may not be thrilled about it, but you could blur your photo. If you agree to reveal the actual photo once you receive an offer, it might have little impact.
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There’s a pretty big difference.
Some girls receive dozens of offers within three days to a week—so many they can’t accept them all. And for girls like that, the offers won’t run out even after a year.
Some even hide their profiles after the first day or just a few days.
As for girls who don’t get any offers, obviously, I’ve never made them an offer, so I don’t even know whether they actually exist.
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For the same reason, I had my face blurred in my photos (and on other dating club sites, I only showed myself from the neck down). Once I received an offer, I would suspend or close my account after about two weeks to a month.
Universe used to allow indefinite suspension, so I kept my account suspended, had new photos taken, made my profile public again for about a month, and then suspended it once more. However, their policy changed to limit suspensions to one month, so I closed my account at that point.
Marika
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I think you should start by signing up.
Some women continue receiving offers every month even after a year, while others find that offers come only once every few months after about six months.
It varies from woman to woman, so there’s no way to say until you register and see which type you are.
If you feel the offers are starting to slow down—or stop coming altogether—you can simply cancel your membership then.
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I don’t think there’s any one “general rule.”
Some women continue to receive offers even after several years. Others are flooded with offers right after registering, have their profiles temporarily hidden, and then receive another flood of offers when they’re made visible again a few months later. Some consistently receive one or two offers every month for a year. And some don’t get any offers for several months after registering, only to receive one when they least expect it.
Rather than deciding to quit as soon as things slow down, I think it’s better to set your own limit in advance—such as deciding you’ll quit after one month.
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