I joined this month, and around 50 male members have added me to their favorites list, but I haven’t received a single offer.
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I understand that there must be something about me that isn’t quite compelling enough to make the final decision.
What can I do to turn being added to someone’s favorites into an offer?
I’d appreciate any advice.
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As you said, it’s hard to find the deciding factor.
I’m actually in the middle of making an offer myself, and I’ve narrowed my favorites down to three women. I’m seriously considering which one to choose.
Although I’m open to seeing multiple women, I’m the type who wants to focus properly on one person from making the offer until we become intimate, so I don’t plan to pursue multiple people simultaneously up to that point.
As others have mentioned, trying the “You seem lovely” feature with a comment is one option.
You could also try uploading private photos or answering the mistress compatibility questionnaire. Give a few different things a try.
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You’ve received quite a lot of favorites, haven’t you?
I didn’t have nearly as many, and until recently I didn’t even know how many there were. I don’t usually send “You seem lovely” to men, but when I happened to send it—with a message—to someone I was interested in, I received an offer. He had a rather unusual hobby, and I was genuinely interested in it.
Why not try tailoring your message to something that caught your interest in his profile?
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Even if he adds you to his favorites, that doesn’t necessarily mean he’ll make you an offer.
It may simply mean you’re one of the women on his list while he looks for someone new after ending things with another woman.
Why not wait about a month and see how it goes?
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First, regarding favorites:
More than half of the men add women to their favorites just to keep them there for now. Some men may have around 100 women in their favorites but only make offers to a few of them.
So even if you’re added to someone’s favorites, the chance of receiving an offer is only a few percent. With that in mind, it’s probably best not to assume that being added to favorites will basically lead to an offer.
Of course, it’s still better than not being added at all, since it at least means the man has taken an interest in you.
As for what you can do, I think it may be effective to send a message saying, “You seem lovely,” as soon as someone adds you to their favorites.
That alone could move you from the “woman I added to favorites for now” category to the “I’m considering making her an offer” category.
Also, since you only registered this month, he may have thought about making an offer but hesitated because it’s the Obon holiday period.
It may be worth seeing whether an offer comes after Obon.
Another possibility—which isn’t the club’s fault and can’t really be helped—is that your class is too high. He may have added you to his favorites thinking, “I’d make an offer if she were one class lower.”
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I just checked, and there are two women in my favorites whom I haven’t made an offer to yet—one Black and one Platinum.
The other women in my favorites are all women I’ve made offers to in the past; I just never removed them.
Also, more than 80% of the women I’ve made offers to in the past have already left Universe.
Incidentally, the most recent woman I added to my favorites is in the Standard class.
She looked surprised and said, “Are you sure you can give me this much? I need to be careful not to develop unrealistic expectations about money…”
Even when they’re in the Standard class, I never reduce their allowance. I want to cherish her and help her grow into my Cinderella.
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Haha, yeah, that’s about how it goes.
In my case, I don’t make a new offer until my current arrangement ends, so there are women who stay on my “favorites” list for a very long time.
That said, if you’re not on someone’s favorites list, you won’t even be considered for an offer, so getting added to their favorites is important.
For now, try sending messages to people who seem like a good match and be patient. If you have 50 people on your list, you’ll eventually get an offer.
It does seem like quite a few people may only be looking to check your compatibility, but when you go for a compatibility check, do your best to keep things going.
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Getting 50 favorites right after signing up is amazing!
It would be great if some of those turned into offers. For now, I’d suggest trying whatever you can do on your end.
You could read their profiles and send a comment saying something like, “You seem wonderful.” I’m not a member of Universe Club, so I’m not sure exactly how the site works, but it looks like there’s a feature like that, so why not give it a try?
Since you’ve only just signed up, you could also appeal to them by saying something like, “I haven’t met anyone yet.”
I hope you meet someone great!!
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I think it’s a good idea to read the profiles of the people who have added you to their favorites and send a “You seem lovely” message with a personal comment that shows you actually read their profile.
Sending a copy-and-pasted comment—or just “You seem lovely” by itself—probably won’t have much effect.
Besides, unless you’re at least somewhat attracted to someone’s looks, you wouldn’t add them to your favorites in the first place, so your chances are definitely much better than if they hadn’t favorited you.
In my case, I’m already at capacity with the women I’m currently seeing, so I sometimes browse the site and add people to my favorites for the time being, but I probably wouldn’t make an offer unless something really stood out.
That said, with this kind of relationship, there have been cases in the past where things suddenly ended because the woman’s life stage or feelings changed, so there’s no way of knowing when that might happen.
Also, if I had some kind of trouble with someone I’m seeing and received a personalized “You seem lovely” message from someone I’d favorited around that time, I might impulsively make her an offer.
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Give up and sign up with a different club…
New female members may already be pushing you out, like noodles being squeezed through a mold…
If you’re Type A, wait another three months.
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