I think getting 200,000 or 300,000 yen per meeting is pretty normal, so why is this such a big topic? By the way, just based on my personal experience, I feel that people who offer 200,000 or 300,000 yen or more per meeting tend to be nicer and have better personalities than those offering 80,000 or 50,000 yen per meeting.

“Normal” is subjective, so I think it may simply be normal from your perspective. I haven’t surveyed a large number of papa-katsu women or papas either, so I can’t say for sure whether it’s average overall. However, there’s plenty of information online about typical rates and averages, so I think it can at least serve as a reference. Since I have no benchmark of my own, I use it as a guide too. It’s only a topic on this Q&A site right now because similar questions keep coming up. I don’t think it’s being discussed much anywhere else—though that’s just my guess, since I haven’t looked into it. Also, I think you should simply spend time with people who have good personalities. I don’t believe there’s any clear correlation between how much the pay-per-meeting allowance is and what kind of person they are. If you had dated thousands or even tens of thousands of people, then your information might be accurate.

When it comes to a true pay-per-meeting arrangement—not just a monthly allowance converted into a per-meeting amount—the highest allowance I’ve ever paid was 20. The staff at Universe know who she is, so if you want to verify it, feel free—but she was an unbelievably beautiful woman, quite possibly one of the most stunning women in Universe’s history. I was introduced to her best friends and relatives, and I was her “official papa.” We eventually parted ways for a certain reason, with both of us in agreement. But among all my former monthly arrangements, we got along by far the best, and it lasted the longest. Even now, we see each other without any allowance involved, and she always kisses me when we part. A lot of people say that women who accept a lower allowance per meeting tend to have better personalities and be nicer overall. But at least in my experience, that isn’t really true. Even women who are very money-minded can still be wonderful people—like her and Ace. That said, even for this woman—the one I was giving 20 per meeting—when it came to becoming a “regular papa,” I was still the highest-paying person at 20 per meeting. I’ve never met a woman who casually receives 20 or 30 per meeting as a matter of course. I’ve heard of people paying 100 for a one-time meeting. I’ve also heard that Ace was once offered a million yen upfront and nearly got coerced into bed, and that someone received 30 for dinner only (no intimacy). So I’m sure there are occasional extremely generous (well-paying) papas out there, but finding one as a “regular papa” must be pretty difficult. Even for lounge hostesses, when it comes to a “regular papa,” I feel like around 2 million yen a month is probably the upper limit. Once it exceeds 3 million a month, my impression is that it doesn’t last. Maybe papa-katsu has become too mainstream, increasing the number of PJ girls and turning it into a buyer’s market. But that raises the opposite question for me. Do women who have all four qualities—looks, youth, personality, and H—and are willing to accept 5 per meeting really exist? That sounds far more detached from reality. I mean, look at us—we’re ugly old men, right? Are we just living in a fantasy world? They’re only trying to convince themselves it’s true...

The question is why this is getting so much attention, right? I don’t think “getting 20 or 30 per pay-per-meeting is normal” is being discussed at all. It’s a major misconception to assume that something is a hot topic just because it has answers.

That may well be true. I don’t think it’s really being talked about, though…

Personally, I’ve never really encountered pay-per-meeting arrangements at 300,000 yen or anything like that. Once it reaches that level, I get the impression that most papas quickly switch to a monthly arrangement instead. It tends to become a more casual relationship, where you’re on a monthly allowance and an adult relationship isn’t required every time. So personally, I don’t know a world where papas offering 200,000 or 300,000 yen per meeting are commonplace. But if I had to convert it into a pay-per-meeting amount, there was one papa who offered 2.5 million yen. He eventually became very emotionally unstable, and I still occasionally dream about him. I feel like I treated him pretty badly, and I don’t want to think of that papa as “normal” either… I’d prefer something more casual, lol.

Anyway, I’m feeling pretty down after completely bombing with my fantasy about a 30-year-old papa. Someone else, please take it from here.

It probably only seems like a hot topic because the same thing keeps getting posted over and over. Personally, I’ve never even heard of anyone asking for an allowance of 110,000 yen or more. Anyone willing to pay 200,000 or 300,000 yen per pay-per-meeting encounter just to be with a woman must be completely driven by their libido.