There are quite a few papas at clubs who pay 30 or more per meeting, so why do some people answering here get so worked up or assume it’s a lie whenever high allowances come up?
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I think stories about good papas are simply interesting, since you can’t really hear about them directly from the girls, and they can give you a lot to think about.
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I honestly think the fact that you’ve found what seems to be a good papa (a male supporter) and are receiving that kind of allowance is impressive in itself. You must have some appeal that other people don’t.
Apparently, some girls I’m seeing outside the club are also offered 30 or 50 per meeting, but they say the men are mostly awful and they wouldn’t accept no matter how much they were offered. That’s only what I’ve heard, though, so I don’t know the reality of it.
The most I’ve ever received was 50, but looking back, I feel like I was pretty awful in a lot of ways too. Naturally, the relationship didn’t continue.
So I don’t think you’re lying. I simply think both you and your papa (a male supporter) are impressive. I don’t think I’m capable of spending money that way just yet.
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That’s good to hear.
I’d like you to write in your profile, “Please don’t contact me if you can’t offer at least 100,000 yen,” but since you can’t, please clearly state:
“My monthly support goal is around 3–5 million yen.”
I want to avoid receiving offers from people who can’t meet that amount, so please only have generous (well-paying) papas reach out.
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Honestly, I couldn’t care less about someone else’s allowance.
The only thing I feel bad about is that some women might start thinking ¥300,000 is the standard. Maybe the questioner doesn’t care about people that uninformed, though.
I don’t know if it’s a case of birds of a feather, but I don’t know anyone around me who’d be crazy enough to pay some ordinary woman ¥300,000 per meeting just to have sex with him.
Come to think of it, when I was young and intoxicated by the power of money, I used to play around by telling cabaret hostesses I’d just met, “I’ll give you ¥300,000, so have sex with me.” I was an immature kid, so please forgive me.
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From a girl’s perspective, are you really interested in hearing about girls who receive a low allowance of just 10,000 or 20,000 yen per meeting—or about their papas?
From a man’s perspective, you’re simply not interested in hearing about men who pay five or ten times more per meeting, or about the papa-katsu women they see.
I’ve also heard girls talk about papas who pay 500,000 yen per meeting, as well as generous papas and good papas, and I’ve mentioned them in my answers. So I do acknowledge that they exist. Also, “generous papa” and “good papa” can mean different things, and I get the impression that more girls tend to meet good papas.
P.S.
I used to run a men’s esthetic massage business, and from a therapist’s perspective:
A big-spending client is someone who books her exclusively one day a week, gives her several hundred thousand yen, and buys her expensive gifts. He’s even proposed to her, though there’s no way she’d marry him.
A good client, on the other hand, is someone she sees outside the shop for meals or overnight stays without any money changing hands—someone who helps her relieve stress, relax, and regain her energy.
In the industry:
A client who drains your energy is a big-spending client—a generous papa. You get plenty of money from him in return.
A client who gives you energy is a good client—a good papa. At a dating club, you also receive an allowance on top of that.
Now, between the former and the latter, which one do you think belongs to the beautiful woman who’s impossible to book?
Strangely enough,
the former isn’t necessarily all that popular,
while the latter may be the No. 1 beauty who’s nearly impossible to book.
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You also recognize that an allowance of 300,000 yen or more per pay-per-meeting arrangement is considered high, right?
I find it hard to believe that there are fairly many people offering that much, and the other respondents feel the same way.
So it’s not that we’re being desperate—we simply have no choice but to give the same answer whenever this kind of question comes up.
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> Why do some people answering questions here get so worked up or assume it’s a lie whenever high allowances come up?
Because they don’t think it reflects the average reality of dating clubs.
A lot of different people read this anonymous papa-katsu Q&A site, so they’d be disappointed if the amounts were far removed from reality, lol.
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“You probably wouldn’t understand if you’ve always had a smooth life.”
Those are the words of someone I used to love.
Most of the people answering here have never experienced any major setbacks, are intelligent, and have lived relatively smooth lives.
They don’t know what real poverty is. If they worked hard, they got results. They had the ability to earn more than enough to support themselves.
But there are people who are poor, lack talent, and can’t get anywhere no matter how hard they try.
Privileged people can’t understand how others feel. You’re asking in the wrong place.
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I can’t say I envy that kind of generous allowance, so I honestly don’t really get it.
I couldn’t put up with being forced to do things I dislike, even for a large sum of money.
If someone tried to force me, something inside me would just snap, and even though I’m usually very submissive, I’d suddenly turn dominant.
Many of the men on dating-companion services are dominant, so once they become my slaves, they can’t escape anymore.
Honestly, I think stories about men who became slaves through a dating-companion service sound more interesting than stories about high-paying papas.
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I don’t think he’s lying, but perhaps he simply isn’t interested in women who won’t date him unless he pays 300,000 yen per meeting, and he’s perfectly happy with what he can get for the amount he has in mind, so he doesn’t really care.
Besides, I don’t feel like anyone is desperately trying to raise their allowance. The only one making a desperate effort is “Mr. Loser,” and I don’t think anyone else is following suit—at least not among the respondents.
Marika
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Even a pay-per-meeting allowance of 30 doesn’t necessarily mean he’s a good papa (a male supporter).
I don’t think an arrangement can continue unless you genuinely like the person. You’ll understand once you meet a wonderful papa.
Seattle, you still like Emiri Otani as much as ever, huh? lol
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I’m Potassium, a female member.
Hmm… maybe because people who ask questions like that generally don’t seem to file tax returns?
Seriously, though, looking at the various respondents, I think it’s because relationships that aren’t centered around money are more enjoyable.
(So I don’t read it as them desperately clinging to the money—it’s more like they just don’t care.)
A good papa isn’t defined by money. If you consider him a good papa, then he’s a good papa to you.
So whether it’s pay-per-meeting or not really doesn’t matter.
Besides, women can earn money themselves too. Isn’t it just sad to see a woman who’s in a relationship with money? So judging whether someone is a good papa based on the allowance… lol.
If the person asking defines a good papa as someone who gives 300,000 yen or more per meeting, then the conversation just turns into “How much does he have to give to be a good papa?” and goes around in circles forever. That’s what my tiny brain thinks, anyway.
If there’s another angle to it, I’d actually love to hear it!
I’m totally open to discussing a good papa’s inner qualities, though.
Just my personal opinion!
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If it were Emiri Otani, I’d go for 300 per meeting.
P.S. If it were Sakura Endo, I might seriously pay 3,000 per meeting.
I’d go bankrupt within a year, lol.
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