It’s Mac, one of the answerers. Sorry for posting again.
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This is about a bed mattress. The mattress at the vacation home I recently bought is very soft and has a bouncy, springy feel.
There’s no problem when sleeping, but it bounces too much during sex. I think I’ll get used to it eventually, but for the woman underneath, what are soft mattresses like?
Does the sensation of being pressed against the uterus become weaker, making it harder to feel pleasure?
It reminded me of something a certain PJ once said when we had sex on an inflatable ring at a love hotel with a pool: “The buoyancy makes it interesting, but in terms of pleasure, you don’t get that feeling of being pressed against the uterus.”
I’ve already had sex with two women there, and they both said they didn’t have any issues.
To sum up my question: Is a firmer mattress better for sex, or is a soft one perfectly fine too?
I’m wondering whether I should replace it. It’s still brand-new, though…
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A resilient mattress could work, couldn’t it?
When you push down on it, it springs back, right? If you push down again at that moment, the force doubles—the boxing equivalent of a counterpunch. If you do it like bouncing a ball, you can keep going in succession. In boxing, that’s essentially what you practice with a speed bag. It’s all about rhythm, but if you can get the hang of it, you barely use any strength at all. In other words, you can keep going forever without getting tired.
The Yokohama InterContinental and the Ritz-Carlton Osaka felt like that.
I pictured Mac-san asking this like a player bewildered by their first clay court, and I couldn’t resist chiming in even though it’s broad daylight（笑）.
I think your impression will change once you know what to do. After that, you can decide what works for you and your own preferences.
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Personally, I find that something a little firmer rather than softer makes it easier to move around in different positions.
When it’s too soft, I feel like the force gets absorbed. When I want deep, firm thrusts, that cushiony feeling makes me think, “Hmm…”
Am I the only one who finds it especially difficult to move during positions where I’m on top...?
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I think it comes down to personal preference, but personally, I prefer a slightly firmer mattress.
Even when the man is on top, I feel like I’m more comfortable that way. When I’m on top, I might find it harder to move if the mattress is too soft and plush…
Honestly, I’d be fine even on a hard floor, lol.
It might even be more exciting that way… Maybe there’s something about being pressed against a hard floor that turns me on.
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Sorry for answering as a man.
This is just my personal opinion, but I think that when it comes to penetration, if the man feels good, the woman probably does too. When I move at an angle and depth that feels good to me, women often say things like, “Right there!” or “Do it more!”
So if Mac feels that “it’ll work out once I get used to it,” I get the impression that women may feel the same way. Therefore, if you ask whether being soft is a problem, I’d say it probably isn’t.
I’ve had several women tell me after having sex on a waterbed, “A regular bed is better after all.” Everyone has different preferences regarding the feeling of pressure against the uterus, but if a man feels that something is only so-so, I feel that the woman probably feels the same way.
In the end, I think it depends on how particular Mac is about it.
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