To all the respondents who calmly and thoughtfully answer even silly questions, and those who quietly offer the opinions of mature, composed adults—thank you for your efforts. I feel that many of the women in particular take great care in crafting their answers. Except for one woman, that is.
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Now, since this club is based on both men and women agreeing on the terms before entering into an arrangement, is the reason people keep asking insistently about money that the questioners are simply asking poorly phrased questions? Lately, even female members have been writing about money quite bluntly. What do the respondents think of low-class questions that contribute to creating that kind of atmosphere in what is supposed to be a refined club with respectable members?
The club is based on the premise that men and women enter into arrangements according to mutually agreed terms, yet he keeps asking persistent questions about money.
After reading this, I got the impression that the questioner may be opposed to compensated dating.
It does seem that, even in a dating club centered around allowance-based arrangements, there are men who want a relationship without an allowance.
I’m also against putting money front and center, but I do feel that people seeking a relationship without an allowance are out of place there and should probably leave.
Of course, if the questioner isn’t one of those people, then there’s no issue.
By the way, I’m not sure who the “one female respondent” refers to, but I don’t think a dignified question is one that singles out and disparages a particular person.
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I don’t think people involved in this kind of activity can freely ask just anyone about it. So, while I can’t promise I’ll know the answers to everything, feel free to ask any questions you may have. I don’t have much experience myself, so I’m not sure how helpful I’ll be, and I’ll skip anything I can’t answer.
I’ve also been learning a lot from the different opinions about allowances.
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Female member Potassium here.
I don’t think there’s anything particularly dignified or undignified about the questions. If something catches your interest, you ask about it; respondents simply share their opinions. It’s just a place to exchange information, so I believe everyone is equal. Whether something is “low-class” or “high-class” is far too subjective for me to judge.
Besides, what does “dignity” even mean?
Some people think discussing money is tacky, while others don’t. And when it comes to answers, stating your opinion clearly can, in a sense, be an answer given out of consideration for the person asking. So I find it strange that outsiders—who aren’t the person who asked—judge respondents’ opinions or other questions and then discuss those judgments in the question box.
The amount of an allowance is something that arises from each individual relationship, and I’m not particularly fond of outsiders commenting on it. However, some people do need those answers as data. That’s why respondents share their own experiences and opinions in response to questions, isn’t it?
There’s no need to worry about whether simple data collection or sharing is classy or not.
Also, I was taught when I joined the company that when there’s no superior-subordinate relationship, you say “otsukaresama” rather than “gokurousama.”
That’s just my personal opinion, though.
I have no writing talent—or brainpower—so I can’t make myself sound demure in writing!
But this is what the modern salarywoman is becoming at work:
I don’t get any credit for serving tea, and my salary doesn’t go up either! Give us a bigger raise!
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I’m probably the least experienced papa-katsu (compensated dating in Japan) participant among the people answering here.
Still, I answer based on what I know and how I feel about things. Before and after signing up with SALON, I was anxious too, so I used to read this Q&A site. I thought that if there were others in a similar situation, maybe I could be of some help.
I’m not sure which questions might be considered low-class, but I believe people ask because they genuinely want to know. Some people do post the same thing repeatedly, though…
Regardless of the question, I respond when I feel I can answer it or when I want to share my thoughts. I don’t answer questions I can’t respond to.
So I think it’s fine to ask about anything you’re curious about. Some of the other answerers have a lot of papa-katsu and life experience, and some of them respond to all kinds of questions. I really respect people like that.
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Honestly, I think this site feels real. Because it’s anonymous, people can say and ask things they wouldn’t otherwise be able to. Some questions and answers also contain lies, fake stories, or hidden motives, so everyone is free to decide what to take from the mixed information.
This site has genuinely been useful to me in many ways, so I do think it serves a purpose.
If this kind of realness were regulated and the site were limited to polished, respectable questions and answers, I’d feel like people were being steered in a certain direction, and I think the site would lose users.
Personally, I just post here to kill time. I’m not looking for reverse offers or anything lol. I’m not interested in fakes or showing off, and I don’t have anything in particular I want to preach. The one thing I’m careful about is never writing anything that could lead back to the person I’m currently seeing.
That’s my version of being real, lol.
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Perhaps in an attempt to sound classy, this post has gone beyond being hard to read and become completely incoherent.
I don’t think blunt questions about allowances or money are undignified. What I find unpleasant are these pseudo-questions posted merely to elicit the answer the poster wants.
This is a place to get answers to questions and gather ideas that each person can use to form their own conclusions—not a place for the questioner to make some kind of statement.
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It’s only natural for PJ girls to care about their allowance.
So it’s only natural that there are a lot of questions about allowance-related matters.
For the people answering, it’s a way to kill time and exercise their brains (by putting their thoughts into words), so the quality of the questions is secondary. In fact, the most important thing is simply:
“That you ask questions.”
The reason everyone answers within seconds is that, to some extent, they’re all dependent on this place. Without questions, it’s actually the answerers who would be in trouble.
That said, interesting questions are always appreciated when possible.
Although, it’s not like our answers are particularly interesting either, so I guess we’re even, haha.
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