I’m a newly registered female member. I’ve been getting a fair number of offers, and there are quite a few papa (a male supporter)s offering 15 or 20 per meeting, but I’ve only met one so far who offers over 30 per meeting. I’d like to find more generous (well-paying) papa (a male supporter)s. Offers are still coming in, so hopefully I’ll find some that way, but how much are people who get even better offers actually receiving?

There are probably all kinds of generous papas. Some men can easily afford a pay-per-meeting allowance of ¥150,000 or ¥200,000, while others may be paying that much despite it being a financial strain because they want to date you. If a man is overextending himself, his demands may gradually escalate into, “I’m paying this much, so you should be willing to do this much for me,” too. There’s also a possibility that you could run into someone trying to scam you. That doesn’t mean all—or even most—generous papas are problematic, but I think you should develop a good eye for people and stay alert while pursuing papa-katsu.

In your case, you seem to have gotten it into your head that: > Men who aren’t generous (well-paying) are usually weird. But is that really the norm—or is it actually the other way around? Everyone has different preferences, and the importance they place on money and other things varies. As Kazu wrote, some women who receive a large allowance on a pay-per-meeting basis also have men who meet them for 50,000 yen each time—or even men who don’t require an allowance at all. And some girls receiving 500,000 or 1,000,000 yen per meeting or per month are just average-looking. They aren’t necessarily especially beautiful. Maybe that feels more reassuring… Everyone has different preferences and different things they’re looking for.

I imagined a truly bizarre scenario involving Kazu. After sleeping with a pay-per-meeting papa who gives her 30, she’s relieved that things ended with relatively normal intimacy. She takes a shower and returns to bed, only for him to stare at her with a grim expression. “Who are you?” Seeing the shocked look on the PJ’s face, the papa hurriedly seems to snap back to reality. “Oh, no, I’m sorry. This happens pretty often, lol.” It bothers her a little, but the papa has a wonderfully refreshing smile. Somehow, he looks even more attractive than he did during dinner! Is this the effect of the 30? My beloved generous (well-paying) papa ♥ When she gets up to touch up her makeup, she suddenly lets out a scream! Reflected in the mirror is her own face—she looks 10 to 20 years older. That’s truly bizarre. The papa seems to have gotten a little younger. What a wild situation, lol. I wonder if papas who make their PJs look younger would be flooded with offers instead? The papas might even be able to charge an allowance of 30, lol.

The highest pay-per-meeting amount I’ve heard of was ¥100,000, while the highest I’ve personally paid was ¥250,000. As for the psychology behind it, every story I’ve heard from women about papas paying over ¥150,000 per meeting has been pretty intense. Around ¥100,000 per meeting is fairly normal, though. The fact that these women chose not to continue seeing those men and instead continued seeing me on a ¥50,000 pay-per-meeting basis makes me think they’d had enough of that kind of extreme arrangement. Of course, what counts as “intense” depends on personal perspective, so to women who are comfortable with it, it may seem perfectly normal. There are probably also ordinary people who offer generous allowances, but their stories aren’t interesting enough to become conversation topics, so we never hear about them. One last thing: I’ve heard from several people about ¥100,000 pay-per-meeting arrangements. One woman said it was so bad that she left halfway through without even accepting the allowance. Apparently, the scout who introduced them paid her hush money. The fact that she told me about it means the hush money didn’t work, I guess（笑).