The other day, I went on a first date with a C-type platinum woman.
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We started with dinner and had a lively conversation. After about two hours, I asked if she wanted to continue on to an adult relationship (intimate), but she turned me down, saying, “I have a doctor’s appointment at the hospital later.” I thought, “Wasn’t the first date supposed to be four hours...?” but we made plans for another day.
Then, on the morning of our second date, she messaged me on LINE saying, “A coworker at my workplace got COVID, so I need to get tested too. Could we postpone it until tomorrow?” So we postponed it again.
The next morning, she messaged me saying, “The test showed that I’m positive too, so I can’t meet.” When I suggested another date, she stopped responding, and her messages haven’t even been marked as read ever since.
It’s possible that various factors happened to overlap, but am I right to assume that she simply rejected me? Honestly, I think both the hospital appointment and COVID were just excuses to turn me down.
This really made me realize once again how difficult papa-katsu (compensated dating in Japan) can be.
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> It really made me realize once again how difficult papa-katsu (compensated dating in Japan) can be.
That’s exactly it.
The important thing is to be careful not to find yourself in the same situation over and over again!
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I think it means you were turned down.
If he really had COVID, he would probably have suggested another day. Even if the conversation flowed, he may have just been playing along.
Whether things progress beyond that is a separate matter. Let’s take it as him turning you down gently so he wouldn’t hurt your feelings, and move on! I hope you meet someone wonderful!
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Please realize it during the very first hospital consultation.
So lately, you can turn them down by saying it’s because of COVID, huh?
That’s good to know.
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When you suggested an adult relationship, she turned you down, saying, “I have a doctor’s appointment after this.”
As you wrote yourself, you were unfortunately rejected.
There’s no point wondering whether the hospital was the real reason. Women also find it difficult to say outright, “I’m not interested in you.”
So they come up with a reason to decline without hurting the other person.
What matters isn’t the reason, but the fact that you were turned down.
Everyone has different chemistry. This simply means the two of you weren’t compatible.
In the first place, with Dating Type C, the expected chance of progressing to an adult relationship (intimate) is 50%. Statistically, it’s normal to be turned down by one out of every two people.
Universe has more than 7,000 women. Among them, there are women you’ll be compatible with, so please look for the next one.
That said, you should still review this date and check whether there was anything you might have done wrong.
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When I invited her to an adult relationship (intimate), she turned me down, saying, “I have a doctor’s appointment after this.”
You can draw your own conclusions from that.
Female members know perfectly well that a first date lasts four hours. There’s no way she would have scheduled a hospital appointment afterward.
Still, she shouldn’t have made plans for another date in the first place. She really is an awful woman.
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