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Aug 7, 2022 16:10
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お役に立てれば幸いです。
Age: Private
👨 Male
Universe staff
Universe arranges dinner dates, so we can’t really be held responsible for what happens afterward in terms of consensual romance.
That said, if you’re saying, “I admire nurses, so I’d like to be introduced to one,” that’s possible.
But if you’re asking for “someone who’s actually willing to wear a nurse’s uniform,” wouldn’t you be better off going to a sex-work establishment?
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彼氏/既婚/他パパ/セフレOK/全力応援
Age: 50s
👨 Male
Universe member
Why not try an image club?
This is a place where men make offers after viewing women’s profiles, so I can’t say for sure whether something that far would be possible here.
Other
If she’s an instructor or a nurse, you should be able to find her through a search, so make an offer yourself and then ask her directly.
Depending on your relationship, I think she’ll probably be happy to agree. It might be a good idea to be a little generous with the allowance.
Marika
Other
When accepting an offer, women head into the meeting after imagining what kind of man he might be based on the little information they’re given, getting themselves mentally prepared while feeling happy, anxious, and, inevitably, at least a little afraid.
So if they’re confronted with a creepy request right from the start, it’s a huge turnoff, and all they can think about is, “What is he going to do to me in that room?”
I’ve been asked to wear my work clothes after we got to know each other, but in that case, I figured wearing the sexiest lingerie possible would be better, so I went with the sexy route.
That’s how questionable the way it comes across can be.
Akari
A～Dまで一通りオファーの経験あり、多くても月１程度でLINEはスケジュール調整のみ、スマートに無理なく長期交際するスタイルです。
Age: 50s
👨 Male
Universe member
Negotiate after you’ve actually met in person.
Depending on the allowance, she may or may not bring out her school uniform…
But the first priority is that he’s a good person, so I feel it would be difficult for someone like you, whose ulterior motives are showing.
Other
If I received an offer like that, I think I’d politely decline. I’ve turned down similar offers before.
It’s not that I can’t or don’t want to wear a competition swimsuit or a nurse’s uniform. I just feel that someone who makes such an obviously lustful request to a woman they haven’t even met yet—and can’t show a little restraint—is probably not a good match for me.
As Paper Airplane said, it gives me the creeps because it sounds like a cosplay option at an adult entertainment establishment…
If you absolutely must make such a request, I think it would be better to simply say things like, “I’m really into swimming, so I’d love to meet an instructor,” or “I’d like to date a nurse,” then meet in person and get to know each other first. After that, you could ask while offering a slightly higher allowance than usual.
This isn’t an adult entertainment establishment or a place for arranging prostitution. Please show the refined restraint of a mature adult.
Other
This isn’t a sex-work venue.
Please go to an appropriate place.
Other
I don’t think they’ll do anything about it.
That said, the club may still be tempted to accommodate you because they want the offer fee, so why not ask anyway—you’ve got nothing to lose?
The thought of someone like this making offers to the girls they’re seeing gives me the chills, though.
🏅 倶楽部女性のご主人様に潤いを！
Mパパ、永遠の交際継続中！
B1タイプ〜A寄りパパです！
会う度大人は嫌と感じる方………ご相談ください。
Age: Private
👨 Male
Universe member
I don’t like the idea of having to confirm things in advance or beforehand… This isn’t some kind of cosplay from the sex industry…
Besides, if it’s just that level of cosplay, it’s not weird, so they’d probably do it once you’ve gotten comfortable with each other…
Age: Private
👨 Male
Universe member
How is that any different from saying, “I’m looking for someone who’s comfortable with an adult relationship (intimate),” or “I’m looking for someone who’s okay with ○ per pay-per-meeting”?
Make the offer, meet her in person, and ask her directly yourself.