A woman I’d met several times suddenly blocked me on LINE, and I can no longer reach her. I’d like to know why—would it be okay to ask the staff? I want to ask her to get back together with me!
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Or should I accept that things are over and give up?
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Blocking them is refreshing—good for you!
Seriously.
“Block them → Please take me back!”
That gives off such a desperate, unpopular vibe.
Honestly, you really need to work on your mindset.
Otherwise, I can clearly see your next relationship either falling apart or you ending up being treated like a walking ATM...
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There’s no way we could get back together after being disliked enough for him to block me. If he somehow tried to contact me after that, it would send chills down my spine.
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If you can, ask the staff to check with him for you.
Hopefully, this will be a good learning experience for next time. Just make sure you don’t repeat the same mistake over and over.
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That reason is being expressed through a block.
In other words, they want to cut ties immediately and erase the person from their memory!
Yet the questioner ignores even that message and keeps pushing to get back together. It’s pretty clear why they were blocked, lol.
I’ve never blocked anyone or been blocked myself, but this is definitely one of those situations where I can see why blocking is necessary, lol.
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To start with, if you’ve been blocked on LINE, getting back together is realistically very difficult.
I’ve only had that happen once myself, but being blocked without knowing why is really frustrating.
Some people say it’s because the allowance was too low, but if you’ve met several times and things had progressed into a relationship, I don’t think that’s the case.
Maybe something in your LINE conversations upset her…
In my case, she suddenly stopped reading my messages mid-conversation, and when I checked a few days later, I realized she had blocked me.
I even showed the conversation to another woman, and she said she couldn’t understand why it would end with a goodbye.
People say women’s feelings are as changeable as the autumn sky, so all you can do is accept it and move on to the next one.
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Give up and move on.
If the roles were reversed, you’d be creeped out too, right? They blocked you because they don’t want any further contact.
Being blocked is much clearer than being left on read, so if I were you, I’d move on and make an offer to someone else.
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If it’s clear that you’ve been blocked, then either you did something wrong, or the woman had been putting up with something all along without you realizing it.
That said, in most cases, it probably means the allowance was too low.
Once you’ve been blocked, there’s no way to repair the relationship now, even if you ask why.
If you haven’t been blocked—say, she simply hasn’t replied—and you want to make another offer, I used to accept those requests when I was working at the agency. However, women turned them down more than 90% of the time, so I think many staff members nowadays are reluctant to accept second offers.
Personally, I’d accept a second offer on a “nothing ventured, nothing gained” basis. If it still doesn’t work out, the man can at least move on, and I tend to want to do everything I can to help.
> Or should I assume the relationship has run its course and give up?
Since you’ve been blocked, that’s a clear indication of her wishes. I think you should accept that it’s over this time and move on.
Just be careful not to make the same mistake with the next woman.
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Haha!
I’ve only met her once, but I’ve actually experienced this before.
In my case, it happened completely out of the blue, and I had no idea why, so I asked the staff and they explained the reasons to me. There were several reasons, and some of them made me think, “Ah, I see,” so it was a valuable learning experience.
That said, even if you say the same thing, people can interpret it differently, so it may still be useful as a reference.
I think repairing the relationship would be difficult.
Since this incident, I’ve stopped making offers myself.
P.S.
The staff at the branch where I was registered—and especially the branch manager—were incredibly helpful during this time.
Thank you very much!
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