Tips Aug 6, 2022 19:38

She’s a Gold-tier girl who looked fairly cute in her profile photos, though I felt she was less attractive in person at first. But after seeing her several times, she started to look stunningly beautiful—like an actress.

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Is it common to find someone more beautiful than before once you grow attached and get used to their face?
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When you pour affection into someone—being kind, telling her she’s cute or beautiful, and expressing your feelings openly—as well as financial support for beauty-related things, it’s only natural for your wife or the girl you’re seeing through papa-katsu (compensated dating in Japan) to become even more beautiful and endearing to you. If that doesn’t happen, then either we’re lacking something, she isn’t putting in enough effort, or it’s a bit of both.
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I think it’s the result of all the love and affection you’ve poured into her. That’s wonderful—she must be very happy too.
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It’s simply that you have poor judgment (or lack the skill) when it comes to picking the right person… You should’ve figured it out from the start. At least know your own preferences…
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> Is it a common thing to start seeing someone as more beautiful once you’ve developed feelings for them or gotten used to their face? You’ve got it wrong. They look more beautiful because you’ve started to like them or grown fond of them—not because you’ve become emotionally attached or simply gotten used to seeing them! Still, to be in your 40s and only now saying something like this… How on earth have you managed to live all this time?
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> Is it a common thing for someone to start looking more beautiful once you’ve grown attached to them and gotten used to their face? I think that does happen, and sometimes you can actually sense that they’re becoming more beautiful, too. In my case, we’ve been seeing each other for quite a while, so I sometimes feel that her features have become more mature than when we first started dating. I find myself thinking, “She’s really becoming a wonderful woman.” Ah! Her body is already “customized for me,” though… (laughs)
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Age: 50s 👨 Male Universe member
When someone has a beautiful personality, they look beautiful too. That could be a sign that the relationship will last.
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I think that’s pretty common.
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I think it means he finds her wonderful, including her personality. A woman who makes someone feel that way is truly lucky!!
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