Would it be possible to register for a third time?

There’s absolutely no problem with re-registering—in fact, we papas are always happy to welcome you♪ Just be careful not to get stuck with a bad papa like me, where half of his monthly arrangements are constantly changing. You might want to write something like: “I don’t accept offers from losers.” Writing that gave me an idea: if you put something like “Preferred type: flag makers” in your profile, someone might notice it in the search results and send you an offer.

I don’t think there’s anything wrong with re-registering itself. There’s even a woman who re-registered among my carefully selected six favorites（笑）. Since my current arrangements never seem to end, I haven’t been able to get as far as making her an offer, though… The real issue, I think, is what kind of partners and arrangements you pursue from here on. First: > I’d like to be hidden from the men who made me offers when I first registered… Just talk to the staff at the branch where you’re registered, and they’ll take care of it without any problem（笑）. Next comes choosing your partners and deciding how to handle the relationship. This is the most important part. Men at dating clubs are generally quite sexually energetic—not necessarily handsome older gentlemen. With that as your starting point, I think it’s best to carefully identify men who will treat you well and choose someone whose terms you can tolerate, thinking, “I suppose this is about as good as it gets.” Well, popular men and men with more money than they know what to do with tend to pursue higher standards, so they’re more likely to move on from one woman to the next. If you find a man like me—someone who has been rejected or turned down for offers and is willing to settle within reason—you may be better off sticking with him. In the end, I think that can lead to a better arrangement for you. In my case, I’d still like to make offers to other women, but rather than risk being rejected again, I thought, “She keeps her promises, so maybe things are fine as they are.” We’ve continued seeing each other for four years now. The other day, she told me, “What makes me happiest is that you’ve chosen to have only me.” Despite our age gap of more than 40 years, it made me realize that even if it started as an allowance-based relationship, we’ve really grown that close. I thought, “I see.” At the beginning, she was an incredibly headstrong, sheltered country girl, and I remember wondering, “Is she going to be okay?”（笑）

> Is it possible to register again after registering multiple times before? Yes, it is. > How far back can they look? As far as how much the staff can investigate people who made offers in the past, it goes back to when the system was changed a few years ago. So I believe that’s also the limit for hiding people who previously sent you offers. However, if you know their club names or real names, you can list all of them, and we can hide your profile from those people. Even if a man has already left the club, we can’t tell you that, but if he’s still an active member, your profile will be hidden from him.

> How far back can they check? ⇒ Since it seems to be managed using the setting ID and member ID, I feel like they can trace it back indefinitely. > From a man’s perspective, would repeatedly re-registering feel risky, or make him lose interest? ⇒ I think many men would assume that she found a regular supporter, left the service, and then re-registered after they parted ways. So I don’t think it would be seen as particularly disadvantageous. > Does the profile mention when she first registered or when she registered last time? ⇒ The exact date probably isn’t listed, but the month may be. Based on the member ID assigned to the woman, they can roughly guess when she first registered. So, if anything, having taken a break and left the service in between might actually give a better impression. She sounds like a pretty serious person. If she wants more offers, she might be able to explain the situation and ask to be moved to a lower membership tier. The tier may be raised or lowered when someone re-registers.

I think you’ll be re-registering, so it should probably be fine.