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Aug 4, 2022 00:58
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I’ve been seeing a papa (a male supporter) for over a year, but lately he’s been leaving me hanging, and it looks like we may be nearing the end. There’s no point in dwelling on it, so I’m considering re-registering in hopes of finding a better relationship.
When I was registered before, I received lots of offers. But after meeting my current papa (a male supporter), I put many of those offers on hold or turned them down, so I’m worried that I may not have left a very good impression on the staff... Would they still be willing to welcome me back as a former member like this?
6 answers
🏅 あなたの味方
お役に立てれば幸いです。
Age: Private
👨 Male
Universe staff
> Putting an offer on hold or turning it down
I don’t think there’s any problem with that. You should be able to register again without any issues.
That said, if you cancel at the last minute or verbally abuse the staff, you may not be allowed to register again.
Other
It looks like they’re recruiting new women, so please apply. We look forward to hearing from you.
🏅 プロおぢ。ほんとはプロパパと名乗りたいけど名乗るほどの実力がない名古屋の汚っさんです。
Age: Private
👨 Male
Universe member
I love popular women, so I’m looking forward to receiving reverse offers from you ♡
Ah, but I’m a womanizer, so I probably don’t even register on your radar, haha.
Turning down a setting offer properly is actually considered “honest” behavior for a PJ, so I’m sure the staff have absolutely no negative impression of you.
Judging from your question, you seem to be exactly the type every papa wants, so please register again. If possible, I’d love for you to choose a B type leaning toward A—or an A type, please m(_ _)m
👨 Male
Universe member
Re-registering shouldn’t be a problem at all.
Personally, I’m not a fan of women who get involved too quickly.
After re-registering, I think it would be best to meet four or five people, then use what you’ve learned from your past experiences to build a modest, safe, and stable relationship with just one or two of them.
If you receive a lot of offers, canceling isn’t ideal, so you can simply stick to dinner-only (no intimacy) meetings.
Other
You’ll understand that once you actually go for the interview, won’t you? That’s not really what you should be worrying about(笑)
There’s no point dwelling on it, so looking for another papa is absolutely the right call. And I think your self-assessment—that the staff may have a bad impression of you—is probably accurate too. Clubs make money by arranging matches and collecting introduction fees, so of course they’ll be upset if the fish they worked so hard to catch gets away. Especially when they also have to keep the fish happy and ask them to bite the hook again. But right now, this is the time to focus on moving toward your goal, right? Instead of worrying about how tough things are, shouldn’t you be thinking about how to turn the situation around?
First of all, you absolutely need to re-register with Universe and apply for another interview. Before that, do everything you can to improve on what went wrong last time. Then, tell the staff yourself during the interview something along the lines of: “I’m sorry for causing trouble last time by putting offers on hold or turning them down. I’ve made XXX changes this time, so that won’t be an issue anymore. If I receive an offer, I’m confident I’ll be able to meet for sure, so I’d really appreciate your consideration.”
You don’t need to put yourself down. Apologize for what went wrong in the past, explain what you’ve done to address it, and then show a positive attitude. Go in with those three things as a set. If you approach it as though you did something wrong and need to beg for forgiveness, you’ll spend your whole life being treated as inferior. Of course, you should correct your mistakes, but it’s also important to make the other person impressed by the improved version of you. You might want to watch videos of SoftBank’s Masayoshi Son at IR meetings.
Good luck. Your ability to assess the situation is pretty solid, so I think this is a winnable situation if you just handle it normally.
Taro
🏅 倶楽部女性のご主人様に潤いを!
Mパパ、永遠の交際継続中!
B1タイプ〜A寄りパパです!
会う度大人は嫌と感じる方………ご相談ください。
Age: Private
👨 Male
Universe member
I think they’ll be happy to accept you.
Also, re-registering doesn’t leave a bad impression either.