Around this time of year, I suddenly get tons of messages from men who previously made me offers or met with me, saying things like, “How have you been? Let’s meet again!” or “Want to go out for a meal?”
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Do men generally become more active in the summer?
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Wait—could one of the respondents here be someone I used to see?
Lately, none of my new offers have been working out, so I’ve just messaged a few women I parted with on good terms and who haven’t blocked me on LINE.
I’ve managed to rekindle things with two people before, although it was only brief.
If I’m not blocked, I can’t help thinking there might still be a chance. So if you’d rather not hear from me, please block me.
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It’s nice that they can take summer vacation, but I imagine the older guys who are divorced or have always been single must feel lonely.
So I think they’re reaching out to girls who seem receptive, because building a relationship from scratch right before the holidays would be difficult.
If they have to make offers, go out for dinner, and all that, their summer vacation will be over.
Marika
Come to think of it, someone who hadn’t contacted me in over a year reached out recently too, haha.
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After seeing this question, I decided to try contacting a woman I had an adult date with just once a year ago.
I wonder how it’ll turn out…
Do you think she’ll reply?
Update:
She replied instantly, and we’ve made plans to meet, although it’s still a little way off.
I’d already given her the allowance for two meetings in advance.
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Everyone gets a little carried away in the summer (lol).
I still meet up from time to time with the women I used to date, even after we became serious, so I imagine they may be people I parted ways with on similar terms.
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Universe Club’s sales are higher in the summer.
So while it’s true that papa-katsu (compensated dating in Japan) tends to become more active during the summer, I think that’s a separate issue from receiving lots of messages from men who previously made offers or met with you, saying things like, “How have you been? Let’s meet again!” or “Want to grab dinner?”
Maybe you’re leaving things on a note that makes them want to invite you out again?
Something like:
“I’m getting busy, so I’m going to take a break from papa-katsu for now. But please ask me out again sometime.”
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I don’t think that’s necessarily the case, and it never even occurred to me to contact a woman I’d seen before. I’d be curious to know what kind of nerve someone has to do that.
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