Tips Jul 29, 2022 17:20

I’m a female member.

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The other day, I sent a “Nice” for the first time, but the next day, the man had disappeared from the list of people I’d sent a “Nice” to. He had also been in my favorites, but he disappeared from there too. Does this mean he blocked me?
👤 Asked by Guest 👩GenderFemale 🎂 Not stated 👑 Universe female member
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I don’t think you were blocked. They may have removed you from their favorites and hidden their profile, or they may have left the site. I don’t know why. If that’s the case, there’s probably no way to approach them anymore, so all you can do is send “You seem wonderful” to someone else.
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Age: 50s 👨 Male Universe member
For me, adding someone to my favorites is basically a note to myself for when I’m thinking of making them an offer later. So I treat it strictly as a “favorite”—I add and remove people as I please. As for disappearing from the list of people you sent “You seem wonderful” to, as others have mentioned, they’ve probably made their profile private.
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Age: 50s 👨 Male Universe member
My guess is that either: - The male member withdrew from the service, or - He stopped making his profile public. Men don’t have a block feature, so you don’t need to worry. I also tried making my profile public for a brief moment to see what would happen, but I didn’t receive any “You’re wonderful” messages from women I was interested in, so I stopped. It’s best not to expect too much from the “You’re wonderful” feature. Just think of it as something that may slightly increase your chances of getting an offer compared with doing nothing.
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It may have been your first “You’re wonderful,” so perhaps he was surprised and hid it (><) Maybe he’s a male member who takes things pretty casually and didn’t know that favorites had started being displayed in the Q&A box or something (*^^*)
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Those who hide their profiles are shown as “A” or “B,” so they may have either been removed from someone’s favorites or simply not renewed when it was time to update. Just because you disappeared from a man’s favorites doesn’t mean your own shining appeal has disappeared. Don’t let it bother you—hold your head high. An offer will come along before long.
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Age: Private 👨 Male Universe member
Apparently, due to a temporary system issue, some men who haven’t completed their profiles aren’t being shown. That may be the reason. Alternatively, the man may have taken a leave of absence, withdrawn from the club, or set his profile to private. Unlike with apps, you have to contact the club and request a block, so I think that possibility is unlikely.
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Age: Private 👨 Male Universe member
They probably stopped making their profile public… Once there’s no longer any need to make offers, people make changes like that. It has nothing to do with you—they’re simply satisfied with the arrangement they already have. Men didn’t really need to keep their profiles public in the first place.
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I’ve heard that women can hide a man’s profile from their side, but can men do the same…? Maybe he simply made his profile private or something like that. Don’t let it get you down—try sending “You seem great” to someone else! I hope you find a wonderful man.
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