Nice to meet you. I’m a female member on my third day since registering.
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This is my first time joining a dating club, so there’s still a lot I don’t understand. When I check my profile, I see that around 30 men have added me to their favorites.
However, I currently have zero offers...
I’m unsure whether I should respond with “You look lovely,” and I’m feeling a bit lost.
For the male members, are you more likely to make an offer to someone who responds with “You look lovely”?
And for the female members, have you found that responding with “You look lovely” led to receiving an offer?
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Rather than doing nothing, add him to your favorites. Leave the gentleman a nice comment and mark him as “Wonderful.” He might make you an offer.
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Male members add women to their favorites much more casually than you might think.
I have around 100 women in my favorites. If a woman catches my eye even a little, I’ll press the favorite button.
Just because you send a “You’re lovely” doesn’t mean you’ll necessarily get an offer. Even if you do, nothing may come of it. Still, it gives you a better chance than doing nothing.
Don’t get your hopes up too much. Read the other person’s profile carefully, and leave a heartfelt “You’re lovely” comment. That would probably be your best approach.
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Since I’m with SALON, I don’t have favorites or anything like that, so all I can do is wait until the staff arrange a date for me.
That said, if I were registered with Universe Club and someone added me to their favorites, I’d probably send a “That’s wonderful” with a comment if they were someone I’d like to meet.
If you’re in a position to take the initiative—and the other person liked something about you enough to add you to their favorites—then there’s at least some possibility there. I wouldn’t want to let that connection go to waste.
I think it’s a good idea to check their profile and leave a comment.
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> However, I currently have zero offers...
I’m going back and forth, wondering whether I should reply to “You’re wonderful.”
Maybe it would be better to leave a comment and respond rather than do nothing.
In my case, I only make my profile visible to women I’ve made offers to. I currently have six favorites, but relationships through an arrangement club tend to be tenuous, and it wouldn’t be surprising if any of them ended at any time, so I make my selections with that possibility in mind.
However, once you actually start seeing someone, even a relationship that’s supposed to be tenuous doesn’t end as easily as you might think.
It’s an exclusive arrangement with one person, with an age gap of over 40 years—she’s somewhere between my own child and grandchild in age—but after four years, there’s still no sign of it ending!
In fact, we seem to be closer now than we were during the first year or two.
> Are male members more likely to make an offer to women who reply, “You’re wonderful”?
In my case, I’ll choose my next offer in consultation with the club, including my favorites.
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I’ve set my profile so that only people I’ve sent an offer to can view it, so I can’t receive “You seem lovely” messages.
I chose this setting because on apps and the like, I used to get flooded with messages from women who weren’t my type, which became annoying.
However, from a woman’s perspective, there’s no downside to sending one, so I think you might as well. That said, as everyone says, it’s meaningless unless you include a thoughtful comment when you send it.
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People who add you to their favorites are often interested in you in some way. However, many never go as far as making an offer, so I think sending “You seem lovely” to men who have added you to their favorites—basically, the ones you’re interested in—will be more effective than doing nothing.
That said, if you don’t include a message, they may assume you’re sending it to everyone. So it might be better to add something like:
“I’ve just signed up for this dating club for the first time, so there’s still a lot I don’t understand. Please show me the ropes.”
Ideally, you should read the man’s profile and send a message related to something he wrote there. However, if it doesn’t lead to an offer, the emotional disappointment may be greater, so I think it’s best to send messages without putting too much pressure on yourself.
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In my case, I’m already at my limit with the girls I’m currently seeing, so I’m not actively making offers. For now, I just add people to my favorites, but if someone sends me a “You seem lovely” along with a comment, I might make an offer.
If things worked out that way, the priority of the girls I’m currently seeing might drop. I’ve never actually been in that situation, though, so I’m just imagining.
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