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Jul 27, 2022 23:20
8 answers
🏅 パパ活歴7年目突入
彼氏/既婚/他パパ/セフレOK/全力応援
Age: 50s
👨 Male
Universe member
Please don’t hold back on negative feedback.
Male members, please speak among yourselves.
Female members, please speak among yourselves.
To help protect everyone, we’d like people who think, “That’s just not acceptable,” to leave, so that as many good members as possible can remain.
Thank you!
Other
I always thought it was something you were supposed to write! Σ\\(ＯωＯlll)
Other
At least write that much for her.
Did you do something so terrible to her that you can’t even write about it?
🏅 プロおぢ。ほんとはプロパパと名乗りたいけど名乗るほどの実力がない名古屋の汚っさんです。
Age: Private
👨 Male
Universe member
I always make sure to fill out the survey.
It’s a chance to thank the staff member who helped arrange the offer, and I also give very detailed feedback about the woman.
Business is all about information, and the club usually has few opportunities to learn what happens after the relationship becomes private, so I often write fairly lengthy responses.
It’s definitely worthwhile to keep up good communication with the club.
Even before I became a regular respondent, I always reported back after every date—from how it went and the allowance amount to how well we clicked. I also sent my own staff member even more detailed impressions.
It was my assigned staff member who introduced me to an ace before she was publicly available.
“She’s just joined, and I think she’d be a perfect match for you, Mr. Makeotoko. Would you like to meet her?”
That recommendation led to my fateful meeting with the ace.
It was only natural that my assigned staff member came to understand my preferences perfectly through all the feedback I accumulated.
After a date, I also consider it perfectly normal to send the woman a thank-you message before she messages me. But apparently, not everyone does that.
They’re happy even with just a single short message, so I’ve never once felt that it was a hassle.
🏅 倶楽部女性のご主人様に潤いを！
Mパパ、永遠の交際継続中！
B1タイプ〜A寄りパパです！
会う度大人は嫌と感じる方………ご相談ください。
Age: Private
👨 Male
Universe member
You don’t have to answer.
It’ll only make people think you’re satisfied with her…
I think you should answer if the information is serious enough that other male members need to know too.
If there’s negative information about a woman, a male member might decide not to make an offer, and I imagine the staff would avoid introducing or recommending her. If they didn’t, the man might later ask, “Why didn’t you tell me?”—so if there’s even one concerning piece of feedback, they’d probably mention it upfront.
But here’s the interesting part:
Men also need the courage to make an offer without worrying about that kind of feedback.
In relationships between men and women, someone who’s the worst for others can be the best for you. There’s no one who’s good for everyone. Maybe she has sides—or qualities—that only you appreciate, and maybe she’s simply perfect for you.
That’s what makes someone special. It’s not necessarily first come, first served, and it certainly isn’t decided by the allowance amount…
🏅 あなたの味方
お役に立てれば幸いです。
Age: Private
👨 Male
Universe staff
Don’t worry—even if you don’t fill out the survey, nothing like that will be written about you.
Of course, women are asked to complete surveys too, but just like men, nothing will be written about them if they choose not to. It’s the same for both men and women.
That said, if she was a good woman, I hope you’ll leave her a positive review.
Other
Since the staff went out of their way to introduce me to him, I figure they’re probably curious about how it went too. So, besides filling out the post-date survey, I sometimes message them on LINE with comments like, “We had a great time at ○○.”
Maybe I’m taking it a little too seriously, haha.
I think I’d do the same if I were a male member. It seems like that would help them understand your preferences and lead to even better matches!
👨 Male
Universe member
I don’t think anyone would actually write that about me, but I do think that’s how they see me.
I’m probably being certified as an outdated male member who’s too sloppy to even use LINE properly, haha.