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Jul 27, 2022 19:19
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Both profiles on the club site say positive things about their personalities, and they seem to be the same type of person.
I feel like ② would probably be the better choice, but I still really want to offer to ①, so I can’t decide.
Unfortunately, I don’t have enough time to offer to both.
Thank you in advance.
13 answers
Other
Make offers to both.
Do you have the looks and financial means to win over #1? Since you said you don’t have much time, you probably don’t have the money either, so #1 will likely turn you down.
So just keep #1 in mind and gradually help #2 grow with your own efforts. Get her off the app, and help her fully recover from any STIs. Someone you’ve helped nurture yourself is incredibly endearing.
There’s also a possibility that #1 has an STI, so be careful.
🏅 倶楽部女性のご主人様に潤いを!
Mパパ、永遠の交際継続中!
B1タイプ〜A寄りパパです!
会う度大人は嫌と感じる方………ご相談ください。
Age: Private
👨 Male
Universe member
①, obviously…
As for ②, why did you even join a club? And honestly, even outside the club, I’d still choose ①.
The whole point of a club is to find someone who feels perfect in every way: ①, chemistry, and physical compatibility.
You shouldn’t settle.
And what really matters is for both people to become captivated by each other.
The ideal dynamic is:
The man is head over heels for the woman, and the woman feels secure enough to fall for him completely.
That said, the fact that you’re even asking this shows you lack confidence way too much. It seems like even ① might be out of reach for you…
🏅 あなたの味方
お役に立てれば幸いです。
Age: Private
👨 Male
Universe staff
I was surprised that some men actually choose based on such a limited set of options.
Whether she has a good personality,
whether you enjoy spending time with her,
and whether she’s someone you immediately want to see again—
I thought those were the main points.
But questioner, you still have a long way to go.
Other
You offer to a Level 2 woman, but things never continue.
↓
You lower your standards even further, practice, and take another shot at Level 2.
↓
Once you’re able to maintain a successful arrangement with a Level 2 woman, you finally try for Level 1.
↓
Things don’t go well with Level 1 at all.
↓
You go back to Level 2 for more practice, but gradually find yourself becoming satisfied with Level 2.
That’s the kind of pattern I can vaguely imagine happening.
🏅 パパ活歴7年目突入
彼氏/既婚/他パパ/セフレOK/全力応援
Age: 50s
👨 Male
Universe member
If it were me, I’d avoid option ① because it wouldn’t even be competitive.
For option ②, you should assume she’ll get offers if she’s attractive, and I think she’ll become popular quickly.
If you have the financial means, I’d suggest offering the highest allowance for option ① and simply being the best possible papa (a male supporter)—be well-groomed, don’t do anything unpleasant, and stand out from her other 20 papas.
Other
If you’re torn between ① and ②, you’re doomed.
Those who choose ① without hesitation are doomed too.
Same goes for those who only choose ②.
Maybe that’s the reality waiting for you, lol.
A~Dまで一通りオファーの経験あり、多くても月1程度でLINEはスケジュール調整のみ、スマートに無理なく長期交際するスタイルです。
Age: 50s
👨 Male
Universe member
If it were me, I’d start by emailing the staff to ask:
① Whether the first woman has received any negative feedback.
② How much experience the second woman has with the app.
After confirming that, I’d make an offer to the first woman if there’s no negative feedback.
If there is negative feedback about her, I’d probably go with the second woman instead, as long as she doesn’t have much experience with the app.
🏅 40歳でリアル異世界転生したオッサン l 元金融マン → 現AI界隈
出張ホストの実技試験合格してるので、対女性への無難な前戯とかマナーに一定の知見あり。
Age: 40s
👨 Male
Universe member
Personally, I think offering a compromise is disrespectful to women, so I’d go with ①.
Other
② will become popular soon too. Meet them both and go with whoever you click with.
Marika
Sorry, I misunderstood—you can’t see both of them. But don’t you ever go on a second date with the same person?
🏅 プロおぢ。ほんとはプロパパと名乗りたいけど名乗るほどの実力がない名古屋の汚っさんです。
Age: Private
👨 Male
Universe member
If it were me, I’d choose ① every single time, no matter how many times I encountered the same situation.
👨 Male
Universe member
What are you talking about?
Mr. Maezawa will be angry with you.
You should offer both of them!
Just see them in person and decide for yourself. That way, your desires will be satisfied, the women receiving the offers will be happy, and Mr. Maezawa’s salary will go up.
Isn’t that a win-win for everyone?
🏅 大阪の昼寝引きこもりトレーダー
スペ90以下のひとを厚く囲い込み、一生面倒見て実質一夫多妻で大切にしたい独身です。
Age: 50s
👨 Male
Universe member
Definitely 2.
Once you get close, looks become secondary.
Other
If you’re still new to dating clubs, I’d say ②.
If you’ve been seeing several people for a few years and are making a new offer, then I’d go with ①.
I’ll leave the reason unsaid for now ⸜(*ˊᗜˋ*)⸝