I have a question for this very unique gentleman, an ultra-veteran baron who contributes to driving up allowances. I met a Black A-type woman, and we’ve arranged a second date. I don’t have any ulterior motives at the moment. For our second date, I’m planning to spend three or four hours having dinner and drinks together. Roughly how much allowance would be appropriate?
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I’m also dating women B and C, and I’ve been giving them whatever amount they requested. So far, I’ve simply paid the allowance they asked for as a learning experience, and things haven’t progressed to an intimate relationship. It’s not that I was rejected—we’ve been going on dates about three times a month. I feel it’s better to get to know a woman before taking responsibility for a serious relationship with her.
Even though she’s A, if she needs the same allowance as B and C, I’ll pay it. I’d appreciate any advice, including critical opinions.
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When I hear “Black” women, I picture someone who’s practically a model—like a really cute idol. ˙˚ʚ⸜(* ॑ ॑* )⸝ɞ˚˙
I’m sure there are women getting 20 or 30… and probably even more! I’d love to meet a Black female member someday.
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I get ¥30,000 for dinner only.
That doesn’t mean the quality of the meal is any lower. I’m treated to delicious meals at nice restaurants by the bay and in hotels.
The reason it isn’t just transportation money is that I enjoy chatting and having dinner with my papa. That way, the gentleman can enjoy a delicious meal and good conversation too.
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Allowance rates for adult relationships have been driven down by market forces, whether you look at the median or the average. I can’t help but marvel at how a potbellied, hairy old man with zero appeal as a man can have the nerve to ask a young woman to sleep with him for only 5.
And then to top it off, he tries to flaunt how wealthy he is. The only explanation is that poppies are blooming in his head...
Since they never step outside the papa-katsu (compensated dating in Japan) world, I guess they don’t realize they’re frogs in a well. I’d like to tell them to go out into the city and try picking up even one woman. Experiencing their own lack of value might make them a little more humble.
For A-type dates, I’d say it’s about 1 per hour.
Whether things progress into a further relationship isn’t for me to decide—it’s up to the woman. But if she’s someone I met through papa-katsu, things tend to progress naturally.
Women’s time is money too, after all.
Also, as Paper Airplane said, I’m selective about whom I give money to. I give everyone at least 10 on a pay-per-meeting basis, but whether I increase it substantially after that depends on the woman.
I want to support women who seriously face their lives and work hard, so their allowance keeps increasing. But if someone neglects making an effort in life, I say goodbye.
It’s not about supporting their living expenses; I enjoy supporting their dreams.
Daddies, please read Maezawa’s answers about allowances carefully. His views on allowances are exactly the same as mine. That means even the club is bitter about how low the going rates are.
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I mean, if you enjoy giving money away, why not donate to UNICEF or Save the Children?
If what you find entertaining is having people flock to you because of your money, you could do something like Maezawa, who went to space, and make a spectacle of it on social media. Or, if you want to do it here, put it in your profile and make it a one-person project.
If you want to pay for sex with attractive women, you should hire someone who specializes in that. There are people who act almost like private bankers for that kind of thing. Actually, if you just spend money and have fun, people like that will naturally come to you anyway.
What is it you actually want to do? What you say you want and what you’re doing don’t line up at all. Are you really okay carrying on in such a sorry state?
If you want to get a reaction on this Q&A site, at least come up with something a little more entertaining. I do think it’s the respondent’s job to make even the most boring question fun to poke at, and I’ll do my best. I’m doing that now, after all. But honestly, it’s tough when the launchpad is this low（笑）
The mentally unstable question artisan who kept throwing bizarre questions at us in ever-changing forms was far more talented than you.
Taro
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As before, I think it’s best to give her exactly what she asks for.
Alternatively, since you’re young, going with 20,000 yen is also an option. And if you’re satisfied even without an adult relationship (intimate), giving 30,000–50,000 yen—or as much as you feel comfortable giving—is fine too.
The most important thing is figuring out, including among the other women, whom you genuinely like and who you’re most compatible with.
If you haven’t narrowed that down, you won’t make much of an impression on the women. Your appeal won’t come across, and you won’t be able to fully commit or put in the effort.
If there’s anything to learn from “Make Loser,” it’s that you should copy how he’s clearly narrowed down who he wants to seriously invest his time and energy in.
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Outside the club, I’m seeing someone who I think would probably be in about that tier if she were in a dating club, and for various reasons, we only do dinner together. I give her 3 for a two-hour meal.
From her perspective, it may feel like an awkward middle ground, but the woman I’m currently seeing through the club—including an adult relationship (intimate)—gets that same amount on dinner-only days, so for now I’ve matched it to that.
Just as you’ve asked the BCs you’ve seen before, I think it would be fine to ask the A in question what she would prefer.
As for me, unfortunately, I have no intention of contributing to raising allowances in the first place, and I certainly don’t think I have enough influence to change the going rate as people claim online（笑）. I do papa-katsu because I feel it’s fine as long as it satisfies me, meets the feelings and goals of the women I’m seeing, and means I don’t have to force myself to see anyone else.
If both people are happy with the arrangement, I think the pay-per-meeting amount is really up to them. Everyone has different values and circumstances, so it’s complicated, but I selfishly feel that I don’t want anyone to force themselves into an arrangement they’re uncomfortable with.
That said, if there is any impact, I think it’s less that men will think, “I should increase the allowance,” and more that women may think, “If that level of allowance is possible, maybe I shouldn’t force myself to continue seeing someone.”
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Why are you asking about this here when you’ve been giving the BC women exactly what they asked for?
It seems like you should just continue giving each woman the amount she requests, as before.
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