① Do you think it’s ungentlemanly to give someone only the minimum ¥5,000 for transportation because the date was not enjoyable at all or because you found their words or attitude unpleasant?

I'm Joe, a column writer. I completely agree with Saito! I'll give it a try next time!

I’m Saito, a column writer ♪ How about trying to give her a little extra instead? That sounds interesting.

Maezawa here. > ① Do you think it’s ungentlemanly to give her only the minimum transportation allowance of ¥5,000 because the date wasn’t enjoyable at all or because her words, actions, or attitude made you uncomfortable? If we’re talking about the club’s rules, they state that you should give the woman between ¥5,000 and ¥10,000, so giving her ¥5,000 isn’t, in itself, a violation. However, the rules also say to give it to her at the beginning. Since it sounds like the payment was made afterward, I believe that violates the rules, and therefore isn’t very gentlemanly. So, what should you do if you want to adjust the amount based on how she treats you? This is just one option, but you could first give her ¥5,000 as required by the rules. Then, if you were impressed by her behavior or felt she treated you well, you could give her some additional money after the meal. > ② Do you think it’s ungentlemanly to give her only the minimum transportation allowance of ¥5,000 because she turned down an adult relationship (intimate)? As above, if you didn’t give it to her at the beginning and therefore violated the rules, then I would say it isn’t gentlemanly.