Sometimes I get tired of doing this kind of thing.
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People tell me to take a break or stop papa-katsu (compensated dating in Japan) altogether, but I can't quit because I need it to support my life. Of course, I'm not using the money for entertainment or luxuries.
I want to stop seeing my monthly arrangement for a little while, but I'm worried that if I do, things might fizzle out during the break. So I end up continuing despite the stress.
How do you all refresh yourselves when you get tired of papa-katsu (compensated dating in Japan)?
A man can easily cut a woman off and then make offers to someone else, but women can't really do that...
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When you’re feeling worn out from papa-katsu (compensated dating in Japan), how do you refresh yourselves?
I guess the best thing is to fully enjoy your own hobbies, right?
I like golf and fishing, and I’ve finally gone and bought myself a cast net. I’m really turning into an old guy, huh?
Maybe I should become a YouTuber, haha.
Solo camping is also popular these days, so why not give that a try?
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Papa-katsu (compensated dating in Japan) feels exhausting when you treat it like a job.
By the way, I have someone I’ve been seeing for over a year who always arrives late.
They have a very respectable job and are even a team leader, so they hold a fairly important position.
When I asked why they’re always late, they said, “If I thought of this as work, I wouldn’t be late.”
That somehow made perfect sense to me.
There are people who are never late for work but are often late when meeting friends, right? lol
So, let’s find some other kind of work to do.
If you’re not too picky, there’s always a job out there.
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> I can’t quit because I need it to support myself.
In that case, I think you should find a job to support yourself instead.
No one is forcing you. If you don’t like it, you can simply stop.
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First, you need to find ways to keep from getting burned out by this activity.
I’m not sure when I might feel the same way, but perhaps it’s because you’re meeting too often, the dates have become boring, or you’ve been treated poorly?
People often talk about keeping a comfortable distance, but I think it can be good to add a little playfulness to the relationship—varying how often you meet, sometimes moving closer and sometimes pulling back.
You might also consider taking the plunge and getting some consulting. It sounds like Paper Airplane also serves as an adviser, so they might be a good fit.
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It would be good to find some way—anything—to earn an income through your own efforts.
If your current situation is that you feel you can’t manage without papa-katsu (compensated dating in Japan), try creating even a small ray of hope for yourself: something that means you could get by without papa-katsu. It might help you feel a little better about relying on someone you can’t help but see as an old man.
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What you’re doing isn’t papa-katsu (compensated dating in Japan); it sounds more like prostitution.
If you need money to live, I think you should get a job. You can earn efficiently in the adult entertainment industry.
As an adult, I think everyone should have a couple of ways to cheer themselves up. If you don’t, find some yourself. Please find a way that doesn’t bother other people too much—other than trolling the Q&A box.
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There may not be any way to refresh yourself that conveniently, but if thinking, “I hope every old geezer drops dead,” helps take your mind off things even a little, then I think that’s fine in its own way. You’re free to think whatever you want, and it isn’t hurting anyone.
You say you’re in a situation where you have no choice but to do papa-katsu (compensated dating in Japan), but I think you should also work on improving your own financial stability while continuing it.
If you have the resilience to keep doing papa-katsu with someone who causes you so much stress, I’m sure you can put that effort into other things too.
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Imagine the doll is one of those old geezers and hack it to pieces with a utility knife. You might be surprised—when you actually meet those old men, you may find yourself a little kinder. Give it a try.
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Why not spend some money on yourself for a change?
It can be anything—entertainment, beauty treatments, shopping, whatever you like.
You sound a little worn out, so I think you should treat yourself and do something nice for yourself as a reward!
You’ve got this!!
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>How do you all refresh yourselves when you’re tired of papa-katsu (compensated dating in Japan)?
At times like that, why not make me a reverse offer??
I’m Paper Airplane. I came home planning to have dinner using the side dishes in the fridge, only for my wife to slap me down yelling, “That’s for breakfast—don’t eat it!!”
Apparently, it’s quite cathartic, lol.
But it gets hidden right away, doesn’t it…
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For old guys like me, dying sooner is probably the right answer.
We’re done with reproduction, and our families would be thrilled if we died early so they could inherit the assets we’ve accumulated. Exactly.
I want to leave a proper will and refuse life-prolonging treatment. I’ll keep showering my PJs with money until I die.
If someone I’d been seeing for over two years told me she wanted to take a break, I’d probably set a time limit—say, six months—and try meeting her again after that. It would depend on how much she actually liked me.
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