This is Nana Ayase ♡
I have a problem at work…
Even though I’m just acting normally, maybe I come across as sexy, because once again my boss told me I was sexy.
Why don’t you live near the company?
There’s a real estate company in our group, so you could live there. It would make commuting easier. I’ll buy you a car, too, so you can use that to get around.
The company isn’t a dating club.
After what happened last time, I’ve been wearing simple suits. It’s not like I’m trying to sway my hips, either.
I just tie my hair back… So why?
I was happy to finally get hired, but if he’s young, I wish he’d go after someone his own age.
Maybe he thinks he has a chance because I’m in my 40s?
I don’t feel like going to work anymore…
Please tell me how to tone down my sex appeal at work.
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That’s incredible. You must be very attractive.
Didn’t you mention before that you quit your job under similar circumstances?
Nana, you’re such a serious person.
Why not make the most of it? Would you be against that?
The No. 2 woman at my company was involved with the president. She started out as a general office worker and eventually became a director. Although becoming his mistress was what opened the door, she also worked incredibly hard afterward, developed impressive professional skills, and really made something of herself. Eventually, she left that role behind, got married, and so on（笑).
Of course, not everyone’s story will work out that smoothly, but I think it’s okay to have different approaches—or means, or ways of living.
You seem to have the qualities and natural talent to be attractive, well-liked, and good at winning people over. There’s no law saying you can’t use your feminine charms and sex appeal in your career（笑).
This is just my personal opinion. Feel free to ignore it if you don’t like it.
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Thank you all for your answers.
Seattle-san,
I don’t have the nerve to demand a huge amount of money. Besides, he’s way too young and not really my type…
Rin-san,
From my perspective, you have a delicate, alluring air even when you’re just being yourself. If I were a man, I’d definitely make you an offer.
Makeo-san,
Your way of thinking is really interesting, as always.
Were you muscular, Makeo-san?
Mac-san,
People have been telling me since I was little that there’s something sensual about my mannerisms, rather than my looks… so maybe I can’t help it.
Maybe I should try not to smile…
Early-san,
Exactly. Normally, people don’t make sexually harassing comments like that.
Date◎Yume-san,
Yes, I started thinking maybe there’s nothing I can do about it anymore.
A sidelong glance… so you saw my picture. That one’s a monster. Please don’t look at it—it’s embarrassing. I’m actually thinking about leaving the site.
Awawa-san,
A company bag… what does that even mean?
Maybe I should connect my eyebrows into one line… lol
Marika-sama♡
Yes, I’m worried I might not be able to work properly anymore…
“The dignity of a temp worker”… Maybe I should go with really tacky clothes and makeup, or just draw my eyebrows differently.
Either way, it’s becoming a little painful, so I’ll try looking for something else.
Ugh, my finances are going to get tight again.
Fuu-sama,
I’m not that attractive—I just laugh a lot. If my mannerisms are the problem, they’ve been a habit of mine for years, so it would be difficult to change them.
It would also be hard to make the most of them. If it made it difficult to work with the other people there, work wouldn’t be enjoyable anymore, right?
I’m clumsy when it comes to things like that. Thank you very much for sharing such helpful advice.
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Whether you choose to ignore him or play him to your advantage, I’d personally keep it discreet—so discreet that only the company president himself would know what was going on.
It sounds interesting, but when you consider the risk of losing your job depending on how things develop, it’s not that simple.
As for the problem of giving off an overly sexy vibe, I wrote that I thought you could get rid of it if you really tried—but to be honest, I’m not entirely confident about that myself.
Maybe you should dress more like Haruko Omae from *Haken no Hinkaku*. The season is different, but I think you could use her overall look as inspiration. That style isn’t my taste at all either, but I do think it would help tone down the sexy vibe.
Marika
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Nanaaa (*'-'*)ﾉ" Long time no see!
Maybe wear completely ridiculous glasses at work...
Hmm.
Or put a kind of creepy strap on your work bag...
Sorry, I can’t think of anything at all.
I don’t have anything like that at work.
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Few people probably act like an actual company president, but there are attractive women, right?
I guess Nana’s vibe matched what the president was looking for（笑）
I wonder if there’s anything you can do about it.
Maybe he’ll give up if you refrain from giving him those sidelong glances and just carry yourself demurely（笑）
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Someone I know who often approaches women told me that, based on their behavior and mannerisms, some people are more likely to get hit on than others. Apparently, it’s pretty hard to change those traits.
I also wonder if a company president’s personality and way of thinking have a lot to do with it. The business owners around me never make a move on anyone at work, no matter how attractive or beautiful she is, so I think there are more executives like that these days.
I’d never make a move either, which is why I’m on a dating club（笑）
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Why don’t you and Marika start showing up at Universe Lounge together under a name like “Iro-K’s” or “E-Rose”? You’d probably attract tons of papas (male supporters)♡
Maybe I’ll team up with Fuu and form “The Universe Kinniku-Kuns”♪
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Good morning, Ayase Nana ♡
That sounds like a problem many people would envy… I’m so lacking in sex appeal that I almost want to ask you how to become more alluring.
Maybe it’s the way you wear a simple suit and tie your hair back, as if you’re trying to hide your femininity, that makes you seem even more alluring?!
I feel like all you can do is tell your company president, “I have absolutely no intentions like that. We’re nothing more and nothing less than a boss and an employee.”
I’ve never had to deal with a problem like that, so I’m sorry I can’t offer much advice.
But honestly, I’m incredibly jealous!
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It would be nice if they gave you cash instead of unwanted real estate or cars. Being beautiful is tough.
Since you have the opportunity, you might as well name an outrageous amount instead of brushing it off.
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