We met for the first time and had dinner only that day. He asked if I could meet next Saturday, then later asked if we could change it to Sunday. I said Sunday was fine and asked if I could leave the time up to him, but then he stopped responding.
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Until then, we’d been messaging every day on LINE, so if he had no intention of meeting me, I wish he hadn’t asked in the first place.
I don’t know whether he met another woman he liked better or simply lost interest in seeing me, but can anyone help me understand what a man like this might be thinking?
Can’t you get in touch with him at all? ( ˙꒳˙ )???
He might not be feeling well, so I think it’s fine to wait a little while, try contacting him again, and then decide what to do～＼(^o^)／
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This may sound harsh, but…
Weren’t you looking for someone who was available physically next Saturday?
If you go into dating clubs thinking that’s just how they work, you won’t get hurt.
The reality is that many men only see women as holes.
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From the man’s perspective, if you’re meeting through a dating club and haven’t even gotten intimate, isn’t it fair to say things are pretty uncertain? If there’s potential, things may progress nicely, but there are probably all kinds of things happening behind the scenes. She might be making offers to other men, or an existing connection that was starting to cool off may have reignited…
If she already has a solid portfolio of supporters, then it’s probably fair game for both sides. But if she hasn’t built one yet, she’s at a bit of a disadvantage. Let’s survive this fleeting moment by fully embracing our power to let things slide.
Rather than overthinking it, I feel that simply thinking, “If we meet again, I’ll give her my biggest smile,” may actually be the most effective approach.
P.S. “Somehow, we’ve gradually drifted apart” is something we should give proper thought to. I’ve been thinking about it a lot lately too… haha
Taro
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