I’m a woman in my late 20s considering registering.
I have several reasons for wanting to start papa-katsu (compensated dating in Japan), but the main one is that I’m studying art and would like to draw while “touching” a man’s body.
I’m hoping to meet a gentleman who would enjoy modeling for quick sketches during the time we spend together. Would that be too much to ask?
Before going through the interview, I wanted to ask for everyone’s opinions at the club, so I’m posting this question.
My second reason is that I really want to be held by a mature, financially comfortable older man.
I’ve only had one sexual partner and am still technically a virgin, so I’m cautious, but I’ve made up my mind. I’m thinking of choosing relationship type B, leaning toward C.
It seems questioners can’t add follow-up comments, so I’d like to thank everyone in advance here for taking the time to answer.
There probably aren’t any men with the kind of physique you’re looking for, though—is that okay?!
Fuu seems great. And there’s also Makeotoko, who calls himself “short, fat, and bald,” but he actually looks like he works out a lot.
If you’re not looking for someone like Hayato Ichihara, though, I think it’s fine.
Marika
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Mac, I’d also like to observe only, so if an opportunity like that comes up, please let me know.
I won’t lay a hand on the women—just observe. I’ll cover part of the tip.
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A quick sketch while touching sounds nice.
I’d be up for that—I’m volunteering!
Do you have any preferences for the model?
My face is pretty average to unattractive, but I work out and have a lean, toned build—faint vertical abs and a subtly defined chest.
Though I’d prefer a croquis where you don’t draw my face（笑）
If you’re a virgin, you’d probably be in high demand, and I’m sure you’d get plenty of offers as a reward.
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You didn’t ask, but being a croquis model can be pretty tough, you know?!
“Short sessions” is questionable too, lol. Joe has been fooled by that phrase countless times. The artist’s idea of how long something takes is generally very different from the model’s.
I hope you find a patient, understanding man.
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For a moment, I got nervous because I thought you might be someone I know. 😅
I’ve actually had the experience the questioner is looking for, although I wasn’t a virgin.
My muscles and, well, my size are more than sufficient, so apparently I’m a perfect fit as a subject.
And with a little attention, I can keep things moving in the right direction.
I’m not interested in helping someone have their first experience, nor do I have the skills for it. Besides, I’m not exactly built for someone inexperienced. So if you don’t match with anyone else, I can at least do some stretching as the third batter. Please contact me through my staff member.
I can offer twice the allowance of the other respondents, but my strike zone is much narrower than theirs, so please consider me strictly the third batter. m(｡>__<｡)m
What I’m trying to say is that if you simply write exactly what you’re looking for in your profile, quite a few men will be interested.
After all, even among the respondents here, there are three papas who are willing to go for it.
What I want you to watch out for is matching with a cheap papa who says, “I’ll let you be my subject, so an adult relationship (intimate) is 3.”
And please take good care of your virginity, too.
I’d love to read a column by Paper Airplane about the process of helping someone have their first experience, so part of me hopes you’ll choose Paper Airplane this time.
Honestly, though, I’d love to see “what goes around comes around—double the payback!” lol
P.S.
Since you say you’ve only been with one person and are still a virgin, I’m taking that to mean you’ve gotten naked in front of a man and gone as far as just before the main event.
P.P.S.
If you were Type A, I might have made you an offer outright. Being the subject for a Type A girl sounds much more fun♪ There’s also the enjoyment of subtly persuading her without making it obvious.
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I don’t think it’s impossible at all.
I think it’s a great idea.
I’m sure there are plenty of men who would be willing to go along with it.
If I were single, I’d definitely be interested—as long as you agreed to portray me as handsome and slightly muscular.
A completely faithful portrait might end up being a little hard to look at, so I’d appreciate it if you made a few flattering adjustments（笑).
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The first model sounds like he’d really appeal to men. Just imagining it is exciting and stimulating. I’d be happy to accept him too—I’d like to try it. If I were a man…
Before an adult relationship (intimate), we often massage each other while almost completely naked. The direct physical contact is incredibly stimulating: it feels good for women, while men also get visually aroused, so it becomes even more intense than foreplay. It’s enough to make you wonder whether women might actually enjoy this more.
I think the second option—a mature, financially comfortable older man—sounds good too.
As for your first experience, you weren’t able to check the “virgin” box, but you have had your first experience, right?
You’ve probably read the previous question as well, so if you’re prepared for that, there shouldn’t be a problem. If you also place value on the model-like appearance and the older man’s composure, then even more so. And since you’ve had your first experience, even if it wasn’t a success, there shouldn’t be any issue.
Hmm? Was it one person you’ve dated before?
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Things are a two-way street, so while I wouldn’t say it’s impossible to find a man who gives you an allowance and also agrees to be your model, if you look at that part alone, it does seem difficult.
I’m not saying it’s unreasonable, but I think you should consider what you can offer in return.
As for the second reason, that’s fairly common, and it’s each person’s choice, so I don’t have any particular comment.
Mr. Mac,
It sounds interesting for a virgin to observe an erect man up close, so if such an opportunity comes up, please let me participate.
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Having the same man for both the first and second halves sounds pretty difficult.
As for the latter part—helping you lose your virginity—I’d be fine with that, but I’d feel a little self-conscious about the first part.
Even when I go to a play bar, I don’t take my clothes off. Let’s be honest, you can’t exactly call a body over 60 beautiful, and it’s not something I feel comfortable showing other people.
If you’re okay with me picking out a man in his 20s or 30s whom I like at the play bar, approaching him myself, and letting him treat me as a nude model—or even letting him touch me all over while he’s aroused—then that would be a piece of cake.
Yeah, that sounds like a good idea. In return, please let me hold an observation session for the questioner’s hymen. That way, it’s win-win.
Something I’ve been really into lately is taking a virgin girl who grew up in an all-girls’ school to a play bar and having about three young men wash her in the shower room. She seems to really enjoy being washed with body soap by three fully naked, aroused guys. Of course, no penetration or kissing is allowed. That’s an absolute rule unless I, as the man in the couple, give permission.
I’m starting to get motivated. Whether you lose your virginity to me or someone else is up to you, but I’m beginning to feel like taking the questioner to a play bar and having her draw a croquis of an aroused, naked David statue. Once you join, please send “Mac” at the Nagoya branch a comment saying, “You’re wonderful.” I’ll be waiting.
P.S.
Kazu will come too, right? lol
P.S. 2
At least the first time, you have to still be a virgin. I get excited by the idea of a virgin drawing a naked David statue. You’re free to lose your virginity to another papa (a male supporter) once you start coming regularly, but please come as a virgin the first time. Of course, if you let me be the one to help you lose it, I’ll continue to take good care of you afterward—or rather, I’ll support you in various ways.
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If the first and second reasons go together, I don’t think it would be particularly unreasonable.
You could mention it during the interview and ask them to include it in your profile.
I haven’t seen any profiles that list the first reason, but there are a fair number of people in the arts, so the people you’ve gotten close to may possibly be doing something similar.
There was also a recent post about this in the Q&A section, so depending on the situation, Mac’s response might be helpful.
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