I have a question since the topics of adult relationships and STIs came up.
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I don’t dislike intimacy itself, but I’m not the type to be intimate with just anyone, so I’m registered as Relationship Type B.
For my own health management, I get tested for STIs regularly, but I don’t specifically report the results to the club—I only tell the people I’m seeing.
The other day, a man who sent me an offer had “I’ve participated in Partners Check...” listed in his profile, which made me wonder whether I should report my test results as well.
Reporting them might reassure men and lead to more offers. On the other hand, I’m worried they might see me as a woman who’s open to intimacy and come on strong from the very first meeting, even though I chose Type B because I want to select my partners carefully.
The impression I get is that most of the people answering here get tested regularly. Do you also report your results to the club?
I’d appreciate answers from both men and women.
👤Asked byGuest👩GenderFemale🎂20s👑Universe female member
For me, relationships through an elite dating club are based on an adult relationship (intimate), and I’m very eager to proceed, so I ask women to include a Partners Check when making an offer.
For women, I think it’s better to make it public if they want to receive offers. However, since it can lead to all kinds of speculation, I feel it would be sufficient to disclose the Partners Check only to the person they’re making the offer to.
In my case, regardless of the relationship type, I never start seeing someone from the first day. I cover the cost of the test myself, but we only begin the relationship after the results come back.
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> I also wondered whether I should report it.
What other people do, or what the person answering this question does, is irrelevant.
If you took the Partners Check, then please report it.
Ideally, I’d like every member to take the test. Honestly, anyone who thinks that taking the test means they’re entitled to anything afterward should leave the club.
Even if you’ve taken the test, you’re free to say no. What matters is whether you click with the other person.
Taking the test doesn’t mean you can’t turn someone down.
Besides, men who come on too strong will do so whether they’ve taken the test or not. They clearly don’t understand the dating guidelines, so please keep reporting them to the club.
If everyone reports them, their ratings will continue to drop, and they’ll eventually be forced to leave.
Rather than thinking you should just put up with it, I think it’s better to report them to the club so other women don’t have to go through the same unpleasant experience.
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I agree with Akari-san—I think it’s better to keep it between you and your partner.
If you tell the staff as well, they might think you’re overly eager for an adult relationship (intimate), which could put them off.
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