I don’t know anymore.

The questioner is a man, right? I don’t think he’s a woman with a masculine way of thinking, either. To be specific, I’ll refrain from spelling it out since I don’t want to give people like that any ideas, but phrases like “Men want to be pampered too, I guess” and the paragraph saying, “How dare you people take that kind of attitude…” are pretty telling. Long posts tend to reveal a kind of fingerprint, so I think it’s easier to identify the person behind them. I’ve had experiences both figuring people out and being figured out myself. Also, he gives off the vibe of being a very elderly man. His dick seems fairly thick—or rather, it feels like he has a pronounced head. Not that I want to verify that（笑） Anyway, that was my answer to the question. Though I don’t really know what the question was, so I’ll just answer off the cuff: I think tricking someone and thinking, “Heh-heh, what an idiot,” is a twisted way of thinking. From the man’s side, too, you might only meet once a month because it’s a financial arrangement, and then after a few meetings she suddenly says she’s okay with going bare, making you think, “Uh… is this really okay?” But it doesn’t turn into, “Yay, I got lucky and can do it bare♪” Instead, I seriously consider whether I can properly face her as a person while thinking about how she feels. To me, that’s the bare minimum of being human. What do you think, questioner? P.S. This is unrelated, but Loser Guy wrote a long post. I usually skim his posts—and I skim long ones even when they’re not his—but I read this one properly, and it oddly made me think he’s aiming to become some kind of male escort. He’s different from me, but I see what he means.

I don’t know… At the very least, if someone is qualified to join a club (i.e., a reasonably normal person who can pass the interview), they could post their complaints—or fixation—on Twitter or 5ch instead of the anonymous question box. They’d probably get more people agreeing with them there, or the kind of responses they’re looking for, than here. These strange messages that can barely even be called questions make me feel like they’re slowly wearing down my mental health. I’m still pretty new to answering questions, but I already find myself feeling gloomy from time to time (lol).

What happened all of a sudden? Marika But if you look at it another way, you’re at least receiving allowances from several papas you can cut off cleanly. That’s better than having no money, struggling to get by, and not even being able to do papa-katsu because you’re not especially attractive or charming. There’s no end to comparing yourself with people above you, and there’s no end to comparing yourself with those below you either. Still, no matter what anyone says, I think you shouldn’t do things you hate. And if you’ve made up your mind to do something, then you shouldn’t complain or whine about it. Just grit your teeth and get on with it.

I’d decided to ignore this person, but since they left an unusually thoughtful question, I’ll say a quick word, lol. Mac is actually always kind, you know. Don’t you think the reason he sees right through you and says such harsh things is because he hopes you’ll realize something from them? If I’m wrong, sorry, lol. Indifference is the norm, but why not get a little more used to it, become disillusioned, and then try communicating? You’re smart enough to cleverly change your approach, but if all you really do is dig into other people, that’s just pointless—and nobody has the time to indulge it. People aren’t so free or warmhearted that they can constantly pay attention to a child. It hurts to say this, but the fact that you still keep coming back here is painful to watch. Graduate already. I sympathize with you enough as it is.

I’ll say it again and again: you shouldn’t force yourself to pursue a relationship through an exclusive dating club. Everyone has their own circumstances, which is why they use these clubs in the first place. That’s why I believe the relationship should be enjoyable for both men and women, with benefits for both sides. The club you used doesn’t sound like an exclusive dating club to me. Isn’t it more like a dating-style adult entertainment service where you’re not allowed to turn down an arrangement?

I thought this should be hidden since it isn’t really a question. But since it already had several answers, I decided to leave it as is... One thing caught my attention: “Ladies, please take plenty of time to rest when things are tough.” Would a woman actually phrase it that way? For some reason, it struck me as something a man had written. Or perhaps it was written by a woman with a more masculine way of thinking.

I understand that this anonymous Q&A board is meant not only for asking questions, but also as a place where male and female members can vent their frustrations. So if it helps the person who posted the question feel even a little better, I’m sure Mr. Maezawa won’t complain too much either. I don’t mean this as a rebuttal, but if people respond by saying, “That’s none of your business,” it seems like this section couldn’t really function. What do you think? In any case, the hot weather continues, so please take good care of yourself. I hope you can find a good way to cool down.

Was it you who broke up with me!? That’s how I felt, because I’d been dumped in the past after suddenly being ghosted in much the same way. Do you know what happens to men like that? Their wounded souls can’t move on, so they start seeking an even deeper emotional connection with another woman. They turn into wandering zombies. You could also call it becoming a jiangshi. Personally, I prefer jiangshi. That self-destruct scene with the Watermelon Head brings back memories. You don’t have to do it for the papa (a male supporter). Please let him move on gently when you end things—for the sake of all the other papa-katsu women who are doing their best, too. Let’s reduce the zombie population.

I’m not sure whether this is a question, but it’s beautifully written. At least, it really struck a chord with me. If you’re capable of writing something this wonderful, I wish you’d started doing so earlier. You must have been pushed to your limit. You probably aren’t bored enough to read through my past answers, but I don’t think I’ve ever said “If you don’t like it, just quit” over the past year. If I did say it once, I apologize. I’ll never be able to get along with someone who can toss that line around so casually. I refuse to look away from how much of a mental toll it takes for a woman to register with a dating club. That’s why I prepare perfectly before every date. I pay even more attention to my grooming than the women do, and I spend a lot on my appearance. A full-time professional model once told me, “You always smell really good,” and many of the women I’ve met have complimented me on my scent. Needless to say, I’m meticulous about preventing bad breath too. I believe staying in shape through daily weight training and running is basic etiquette, and I meet women with every detail perfected, right down to my toenails. Not just on the first date—every time. I always check out the venue beforehand, and I escort her perfectly until we part ways. I go this far, but I still don’t feel it’s enough, so I give her a substantial allowance. I’m good at conversation, and I’m not uncomfortable with nighttime either. I’ve honed my skills to the point that even adult film actresses have been surprised. Even so, I can’t shake the worry that I might still be causing women stress. One last thing. I want you to know that there’s at least one idiot papa who takes things this seriously. And even though I keep putting on what I consider to be perfect dates with this level of thoroughness, most women make virtually no effort for me in return. That’s why I end things, I suppose… When I tell them it’s over, they ask, “Why?” It’s truly disappointing. I wish they would learn from Ace, who prepares perfectly every single time. Ace knows very well that this isn’t such an easy world that you can survive on cuteness alone. To all the PJs out there, let’s both do our best and enjoy some wonderful papa-katsu (compensated dating in Japan). P.S. “Male prostitute”? I see—maybe that’s exactly right. I don’t mind the sound of it. There was a movie called *The Youngest*, wasn’t there? Maybe I’ll watch it.

Papa-katsu (compensated dating in Japan) and dating clubs exist in a world apart from the ordinary one—people don’t get involved unless they have some reason to. So naturally, you encounter all kinds of things… the good and the bad…