Many of the male members who send me offers are handsome and don’t look their age, which I think is wonderful. However, I personally feel uncomfortable around very handsome men, and I feel I might be able to date more comfortably without getting nervous if they were a little more ordinary-looking. Would it be possible to make such a request to the staff regarding the offers I receive?
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You’re not comfortable with handsome guys, huh? Personally, I’d be happy, but I think the club staff would appreciate it if you accepted offers without being too selective at first.
Then, if things don’t work out, you can always decline continuing the arrangement.
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Oh, goddess.
You could put something like this in your profile:
“I’m not good with handsome guys, so I’m waiting for offers from average- or unattractive-looking men.”
I’m sure you’ll get plenty of offers.
But don’t blame me if you get an offer from someone incredible, haha.
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Regardless of whose standards you go by, making the staff do something like that is bound to cause serious trouble.
Please be considerate enough to understand that. Being self-centered isn’t okay.
Akari
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He wasn’t unhygienic or anything—he wasn’t some seriously weird guy. I’d just try to think of it as, “He was handsome, I was nervous, but I was lucky to meet him☆”
I’m sure you’ll meet someone normal before long, too!
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Just like Marika, I get nervous when there’s a handsome guy around me too.
I wonder just how handsome the man you met was?
Was he about as good-looking as Takeru Satoh?
Anyone less handsome than that is just an ordinary guy, so don’t worry. You’ll get used to it.
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Why ask him to do that? Then what?
Wouldn’t you rather have him make you an offer?
If he’s handsome, it’s such a waste to turn him down when he’s making an offer because he wants to look beyond a woman’s appearance and get to know her inner self.
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Free dating means you’re free to turn someone down if he isn’t your type.
At the offer stage, you don’t know yet whether he’s someone you’ll be attracted to. And what counts as handsome is largely subjective, so I think it’s better to meet him first and then decide.
Whether you choose Dating Type C or D, you still have the right to say no.
P.S. In a nutshell: “Meet him first, then turn him down if you want.” But that could be misunderstood, so explaining it properly makes this a lot longer…
It’s hard to keep things short, lol.
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For a split second, I thought, “Could it be Honoka?”—but nope.
So I mentally replaced “male member” with Osaka-san and read it three more times.
Looks like today’s going to be a good day too ♥
Wishing everyone happiness lol.
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It might be possible if you could clearly explain what you consider “good-looking” in a way that everyone else would understand.
Realistically, though, that’s pretty difficult, isn’t it?
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How about writing “Not into handsome guys” or “Ugly guys welcome” in your profile, and adding your own definitions of those terms?
I’ve never seen anyone say that specifically, though I do feel like I’ve seen profiles saying they prefer heavier guys.
That said, men’s self-assessments and how women actually see them can be quite different, so I think it’s best to meet them first and then turn them down if they’re not your type.
If you’re getting a fair number of offers from handsome guys (though “handsome” is undefined), you’re probably receiving quite a lot of offers overall. I’m sure someone who fits what you’re looking for will come along eventually.
Good luck!
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This isn’t me, lol.
I’m not great with handsome guys either, but if one made me an offer, I don’t think I’d turn it down. You’ll get used to it.
Marika
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Since you’re the one receiving the offer, I’d say go ahead and accept it gratefully…
If you meet him and he’s too handsome for you to handle, you can always decline a second meeting.
Everyone has their own preferences, but this is a dating club—not a real boyfriend situation—so I’d personally consider it lucky to have a good time.
When I was asked what kind of person I like, I said right away that I’m attracted to men with good table manners, haha.
Well, everyone has their own preferences.
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