Do men lose interest when they find out a woman is married and has children?
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I’ve been seeing someone for a long time, but he seems uncomfortable with it.
I feel like it’s only a matter of time before he finds out. If he does, do you think we’ll break up?
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I think most relationships involve both people keeping certain things private, but if it’s something that would make the other person say, “I’d rather avoid that,” such as being married, having children, having had cosmetic surgery, tattoos, experience in the nightlife or adult industries, and so on, I think it’s disrespectful to deceive them.
When it comes to being married, some people absolutely want to avoid it because there could be unforeseen complications.
So saying you’re single when you actually have a husband isn’t right.
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In my case, there are only two options: tell me from the start, or keep it hidden from me until the very end.
So in this situation, I’d end the relationship.
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There’s a difference between dating someone who knows and dating someone who doesn’t.
I understand that if you’ve been together for a long time, it becomes even harder to find the right time to bring it up.
In the end, it’s starting to feel like you’re deceiving them, but the fact that you’re more worried about breaking up than about their feelings… is a little sad, honestly lol.
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It seems like a lot of people avoid married supporters with children.
At my age, it wouldn’t be unusual to have kids, but if you’re in your 20s, people might think, “Wait, you’re married? You have children?”
Men probably want to avoid anything that feels like a hassle as much as possible.
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I’m sure some people may not be comfortable with it, but I think it’s best to bring it up at the beginning. I’m not the type who can keep things hidden…
I think it would be best for you to be with someone who says, “That’s okay with me.”
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