Hello! Thank you as always for your continued support.

It looks like somewhere between 0 and 100 men have added me to their favorites. Since the latest report says there are 4,366 male members, I feel that’s a fairly average number. If you’re asking, shouldn’t you also share your own data so we can actually compare averages? As Marika said, even if we come up with figures like an average, they probably wouldn’t be very reliable… Rather than getting excited or discouraged over whether the number is high or low compared with others, I think what matters more is how you approach the men who added you to their favorites and get offers from them, as well as whether you can continue a happy relationship with them. (The way I put that made it sound like work, didn’t it?)

That varies greatly from person to person, of course. Some people receive dozens of offers a month, while others leave the site without receiving a single one. When it comes to being added to someone’s favorites before getting an offer, some people may be favorited several times more than that, while others hardly get any at all. I assume you’re trying to figure out where you stand—but people who ask this are usually already getting quite a lot of favorites and offers and just want to confirm that they’re near the top. This isn’t like taking a practice exam and getting a deviation score or an A rating, so there’s no point worrying about it. It’s not really a figure for which an average has any meaning. Marika

This doesn’t really answer your question, but I wanted to comment. I get around 20–30 “You’re lovely” reactions a month, but so far, I haven’t received a single one from anyone I’ve added to my favorites（笑）. I’m not sure whether they simply don’t check that information, or whether they’re popular enough to receive plenty of offers without taking the initiative themselves. In my case, I’ve only favorited a few people. I’m already fully occupied with the people I’m currently seeing, so I don’t send offers myself—but if I received a “You’re lovely” reaction with a comment, I’d probably send them an offer. So, yeah… that was my totally random comment.