Thank you for all the different answers. I was the one who asked what kind of profile comment would be best.
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I’m not dressed in a flashy, girly style—I dress casually for my age. I’m honestly offended that even my clothes were called creepy… I was using emoticons to express my feelings, but I think I’ll try to make my profile appealing without them. Thank you for the advice.
👤Asked byGuest👩GenderFemale🎂30s👑Universe female member
There’s no need to feel so down about it (*ᴗ͈ˬᴗ͈)ꕤ*.ﾟ
If it were just that one at the end of the message, it might’ve been fine. Kind of cute.
Although, come to think of it, do girls these days even use that little bow anymore?
If anything, it gave me more of a “thirty-something” vibe.
I judge someone’s personality by looking at both their persona in the video and their comments.
Simply put, the video shows their outward image, while their writing reveals their inner self.
If someone is trying really hard to appeal to people in their video, but their comment is just “Nice to meet you,” you get the feeling:
“They probably don’t have much motivation and are likely kind of lazy.”
Some people take it even further and just copy and paste text from another site.
Sometimes they even copy the typos too, lol. I see it pretty often.
You definitely wouldn’t make them an offer, right?
So if your persona is naturally bubbly and cutesy, then using emoticons might actually suit you.
It’s probably safest to keep the vibe of your video and comments consistent, but if you’re thinking in terms of getting offers, intentionally creating a bit of contrast could work too.
Try different things and see what suits you!
Wishing you the best of luck.
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> I dress casually for my age.
Clothing can be tricky. Once, there was a woman with an absolutely wonderful personality who wasn’t getting any offers. When I asked the men what was wrong, they said her clothes were the issue—her fashion sense was about 20 years out of date.
I realized that different men look for different things.
So even if you think you’re dressed casually and appropriately for your age, it may still not work for everyone. I think it’s best to be mindful of that.
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I wrote mine pretty thoroughly, so the people who send me offers tend to fall into two camps:
“Way too long~” or “It was nice getting a better sense of who you are~”
They seem to decide based more on videos than comments.
As for clothes, I like cute, girly, super-feminine outfits, but I go with something understated and inoffensive for Universe（笑）
That said, maybe it’s actually good to let your personality show? I hope you can write it in your own style and give people a sense of who you are♪♪
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I read the previous question and answers as well.
I checked the “You’re lovely” likes with comments I’ve received recently. About half of the users in their 30s used emojis, but they were mostly simple ones.
Also, aside from the emojis, I think the wording of this question is calmer and better.
This may be a bit of a blunt answer, but in my case, comments don’t make someone stand out. What determines whether I notice someone is whether I find her appearance attractive, so the comment is merely one factor I consider when deciding whether to make an offer after I already like her looks.
I imagine many other men feel the same way. That said, everyone has different preferences, so I do think there’s value in sending a “You’re lovely” like with a comment. Also, since I registered some time ago and search less frequently now, if I don’t receive any likes, my profile may not come to someone’s attention in the first place.
One more thing: if the comment is only going to be mediocre, I think a “You’re lovely” like without a comment is probably better.
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I struggle with what to write in my profile comment too. I’m not particularly good with words, and I don’t really have any special talents either.
I’ve rewritten it a few times, but it would be nice to come up with a comment that shows my personality. I agree that comments without emoticons feel more composed and make a better impression. By the way, I get the sense that men tend to read the staff’s comments more carefully.
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This message is really well written.
There’s nothing you can do about the people you’ve already sent it to, but for anyone you contact from now on, it’s a good idea to send them a nicely worded message.
Marika
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I think it’s best to act your age.
I haven’t met you, so I can only go by your writing, but using lots of emoticons made you come across as overly bubbly. That said, there really are genuinely young, bubbly women on dating-club platforms, so rather than trying to fit yourself into that category, maybe you should highlight the qualities that come with being in your 30s.
Perhaps you felt that acting cheerful would make a better impression. But I think you can convey that without relying on emoticons.
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